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meeting people. scary
July 25, 2005
3:21 am
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After being in a relationship for nearly 4 years, which ended 2 months ago, I am finding it really hard when I go out to clubs and places like that.

I feel like a piece of meat! Some guys are so sleazy.
I wouldnt know how to talk to a guy anymore. It would feel weird kissing another guy.

SOmetimes i feel excited that i can go out and meet new guys, then other times i feel sick! It sounds silly i know, but I dont know what to do!

July 25, 2005
11:47 am
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Hi Rumba,

Have you taken some time out with only yourself to heal and love and nurture yourself?

Every relationship entails pain and healing process before pursuing any other relationships.

Yes, I agree with you totally. Finding quality people is a REAL CHALLENGE. That's why, I decided to relocate to another town. In my present town, I have no good church, no gf or bf. It is really like hell.
I don't like going to bars to meet friends. To me, since I am spiritual female, church, voluntary works, libraries, gyms, workplace are the ideal places to find friends.

See if you can relocate if you feel unfulfilled, even though it takes time - it is worth it. Keep looking for quality things and people. I believe this is the price we pay when we start to look for quality people. We end up feeling left out and alone. However, I also believe that we should persist till we find ultimately what we're looking for.

Best of luck to us all since we are all in the same boat!!!

~Love, RAS~

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