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February 25, 2004
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Pancho was just sad.

So, get this. I gave my 2 week notice on Friday and my boss asked me to leave this Friday instead of next Friday. So, I leave to go on my vacation this Sunday and get back on Thurs, the 11th. I'm really excited. But, I thought it was kind of rude of my boss to ask me to do that. Don't you think? I mean, he didn't even really ask, he told me.

February 26, 2004
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Yeah I think it is just his way of taking his anger of you leaving out on you. Trying to one up you so to speak, but you will be happier now at this new job hopefully and won't ever have to deal with your old boss again. So are you happy right now? With Ali?

February 26, 2004
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Yes, I am happy now with Ali. Ali is going to come up to Seattle the day I get back from Cuba and we will spend 3 days there together. Last night he helped me get my personal things out of my office, which took a while and it was raining terribly hard here. So, that was nice of him. And, he went to the tile store to pick up the tiles that I had ordered for me.

Get this, so, my boss' wife, the "firm business manager", just came into my office to bring to my attention that on Feb. 24 (this past tuesday) I was on the phone for 2 hours and it wasn't all business related calls. I am going to smoke since I'm very upset and will finish telling you this later.

February 26, 2004
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She said that she doesn't want to leave off on a bad note with me, but, as "business manager" wanted to bring it to my attention that since I was on the phone for 2 hours, she was wondering where all her work time went? I was like: (a) I'm not an hourly employee, so, you don't need to count my hours, (b) if you ever had a problem with how many phone calls I make, why wasn't this brought to my attention before?, and (c) I do get an hour off for lunch, which I don't generally eat, so, one of those hours was my lunch, and the other 15 minutes (the only other time that was not client related) was my 15 minute daily break that employees are allowed to take when/if they are hourly employees and work over 8 hours a day? Can you believe that? I was like give me a fucking break, tomorrow is my last day and you are bringing this up because?

She said that since this office "trained me," she wanted to tell me that it looks unprofesssional if you are on the phone that much on a particular day for personal reasons.

Honestly, yeah, I agree if someone was on the phone from work for personal reasons for 2 hours a day every day, or once a week even, but, the last week that I am here is the only time this has ever happened and she is going to say something like that to me?

Honestly, I am in shock.

Now, I don't know whether I should get them the bottle of wine I was thinking of getting them and just say screw it or be better than them, get it anyways, and have them rot in their misery.

What do you think?

February 26, 2004
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I think get it for them, be better than them, you are better than that, like I said they are just mad because you are leaving and they don't like it. So not they are trying to make the last days bad, maybe because they dont know how to be adults, sounds like it. Yeah I smoke too, trying to quit. Well good news with Ali, Im really trying to be done with Ron, this is really hard, he just called me and I turned my phone off, ARGGGGG,,,, Cuba will be fun for you, I hope you have a blast, have one for me too!!!

February 26, 2004
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Yeah, I'm thinking that too. Isn't that totally childish and uprofessional though? To come in and teach me a lesson the day before I leave here? or am I exaggerating?

February 26, 2004
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Why did you turn your phone off?? Did you start detox again? or do you want to make him thing that you are going out with other guys?

Yes, things with Ali are working out pretty good. Yesterday, at night, I told him that after he didnt' call me the night before I considered going into detox again and he couldn't believe that I would make such a big deal out of something like that. He was like, you can't do that to me b/c then I will call you b/c I am afraid if I don't you will get mad, not because I want to call you. He said that he thinks about me a lot and often in the past wondered about why I didn't call him on a particular day at a particular time, etc. I guess he has a point.

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I just dont want to talk to him right now, you know he pushed me too far this time and I need a break right now, he just called again, and I turned my phone off again, I guess I will just leave it on and let it ring, and he can deal with that, I have it on vibrate anyways, what do you think, I cant believe you told Ali that, now he knows, silly, well Im gald things are good, see they do turn around and change, now I just need to be done with Stupid.

February 26, 2004
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Why don't you just turn your cell off if you really don't want to talk to him? So, are you in detox then? Am I silly for telling him about detox?

February 26, 2004
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Im in detox again, I wouldnt tell him just because I dont know it sounds kinda odd, but thats just me, Im werid about those things, Im waiting for my doctor to call so Im leaving my phone on, silly

February 26, 2004
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Oh, are you okay? Is something physically wrong with you?

Ali was really sweet last night. I really think things are going to work out, even though I am still on guard a bit if you know what I mean?

February 26, 2004
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And you should be on guard, keep the guard up, because for now things are good, and lets hope they stay that way, it does sound to me like Ali does care about you though, and that he does treat you pretty well. And you are happy and thats what counts. HE started his new job today, well see some financial loan officer, blah blah blah, and Ive realized that Im done, you know Im worth a lot more than this crap, and I dont want this in my life, all it does is upset me and make me moody and I would rather enjoy life than be moody like this.

February 26, 2004
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You definately deserve so much better than him!!! I know it's really hard to do detox and stuf, but, it really does make you feel better if you can do it.

Come to the website, I will check frequently through Sunday and tell me what you are up to. I will try to support you.

February 26, 2004
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Thank you and I think that I can do it this time, something just feels different you know, like Im just sick of him, and I just dont want to deal with his crap on top of my own as well. How is the rest of your WORK day going?

February 26, 2004
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Work sucks today. I don't care any more though. I am filling out my time for Feb since my computer crashed a couple of weeks ago and I feel behind.

I am leaving at 3:30 and not saying anything to them. I will probably get a lecture tomorrow about it, but, I don't give a shit any more. You should I should?

February 26, 2004
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I think you should do what you want, but dont stoop to their level because you know that makes you no better than them, even though it feels great, and I know its hard to not do,,, trust me I know.

February 26, 2004
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I know. But, I have a dentist appointment today at 4 and I am almost done with all my projects (definately will be by the end of tomorrow). So, I feel like I am fulfilling my responsibilities. Last night I was here late.

February 26, 2004
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I wouldnt worry about it then, besides what can they do fire you?

February 26, 2004
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They can't fire me. I guess they can dock my pay (not likely) or complain and give me a lecture tomorrow.

So, I'm really upset, Ali hasn't called me all day yet. I know he had work in the morning but he was suppossed to be done at 1. I hate it when he sleeps in or goes to sleep right after work and doesn't call me.

February 26, 2004
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Ok, Ali just called me. I guess I need to stop stressing out. He was sleeping. He dropped me off at my house last night at 4:30 am, so, he didn't get to bed until 5. He called right after he woke up, so, I'm not upset with him any more. I freak out too much, huh?

February 26, 2004
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I supposse they could fire me, but, that would look pretty pathetic, wouldn't it?

February 26, 2004
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I wouldnt worry too much about it, I think you will be okay, isnt tomorrow your last day? Or is it next friday, and see Ali called he was just tired, you have to stop freaking out about those things, REMEBER he has a life too, and I know I get like that too.

February 27, 2004
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Hey Aces,

How are you today? I know I have to stop freaking out.

Today is one of the worst days in the world for me. First, my dog got hit by a car this morning and passed away. Pancho was there and saw it, so, he helped me get it off the street and take it to the vet. Since Ali gave me the dog and he had it for 4 years before he gave it to me, I called him to tell him and he came to the vet too and then he took it back to my house and both he and Pancho burried it. The whole seen was kind of awkward though. They were both crying and at the end they shook hands. But, then they both felt horrible and so did I. I apologized to both. Ali left after the dog got burried. Pancho said that I don't have feelings, not for him, not for Ali, not for the dog and it was my fault that he died. Then I called Ali and broke things off with him. I can't even take care of a dog, how can I take care of him?

Then I came into work to find that my phone has already been disconnected and I really wish I wasn't here today. I also got a 7 page "Internal memo" about what I should leave at the office ... isn't that absolutely ridiculous?

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So, how is your day going so far?

February 27, 2004
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WHOA -

Be kind and rewind, you broke it off with Ali, your dog dies, and Pancho tells you you have no feelings, WOW kid, I don't know who had the worse day mine or yours, I posted up stupid's and mine email on the site its under this is funny or something, so you can read that but seriously you must be a wreck, why did you BREAK it off with ALI?

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