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January 15, 2007
11:54 am
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I think my bf is going to ask me to marry him! Im just learning about my codependency issues, and i'm starting to get over them but its a long process!! And I don't know if I'm ready to commit myself to another person. Trust me... I want it. But is it going to be a bad thing for me?? Don't I need to work on myself instead of submerging myself into thinking only about getting married and making my life about that?! I'm scared. I love him... and I would love to share my life with him... I just don't know what to do. I'm freaking out... the suspense is killing me. I need advice. I don't know what would be good for me. .......... :'-(

January 15, 2007
12:05 pm
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hi luv...first you need to decide if you want to marry him too, if you do, you can always "wait" to get married to him and work on yourself also. Maybe let him know how you feel and what you are going thru, and if he is an understanding guy, he can wait for the marriage part.

Its better to wait on this marriage, you do have your doubts (mostly with working on yourself) so give it time, you have plenty of it, and focus on your wants and needs and work on yourself.

(((good luck)))

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