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Maybe I was too mean...
March 18, 2005
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So, I've been atracted to this woman for months now. When we first met we went out and things went very well, maybe too well because we slept together. But then I started feeling like she is seeing other people. We talked a little about it and she said she was kind of seeing other people. I thought damn, that sucks. But, she must not like them too much if she just slept with me. Now, keep in mind, I'm not a complete stranger to her. We grew up in the same neighborhood and she was really goog friends with my brother years ago.
Anyway, I was rude to her on the phone some months ago and she cut me off. Wow, I was prety disapointed. That's never really happend to me before.
Ok, now, just a few weeks ago we ran into eachother at the gym. One thing led to another and we went out on a date. We did not sleep together this time. I took her home and said goodnight like a good little boy. So I called her a few days later and asked if she wanted to meet up with me and some friends of mine for a drink. She NEVER returned that phone call. WHY ??
So, I took it as an insult and I decided to cut her off. But, I can't I think I still like her.
So last night I saw her at the gym and I did not really give her any attention.
In fact I may have come off as being angry.
That's not my style. I don't want to look like some angry man.
I just want to say hi and ask her out again.
Do you think my actions last night might have ruined those chances ??
There are some woman here, how would you react to this situation ??

March 18, 2005
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Hey true,

I was wondering how you got on! In your previous thread, you were convinced that this woman was not interested in you! Sounds like she is, as she went on another date with you. But now this mind game stuff again, with her not returning your call. Do you think she is just playing with you? I know guys who act 'angry' when they are really just confused and trying to protect their 'macho' image, or trying to hide hurt feelings..

If it was me, and I was interested in you, (and by that I take it you mean you would like to have a real relationship with this woman) you would know it by now..

~charlie~

March 18, 2005
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Oof.
Yeah, it should be a little more obvious if she liked me.
She never said she didn't like me.
She had no problems going out with me a couple of weeks ago.
She might be sensing that I want a relationship and she probably wants to just hang out.

March 18, 2005
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TrueIntuition

This may sound old fashion, but what do you have to lose?

Send her flowers! Don't wait for a birthday, don't wait for some holiday, just say,......

.....I was thinking about you and you make me smile.

Send a movie ticket with the flowers, or something the is more fun,....like going horse back riding, or Hot Air balloning. Something that is fun.

A very wise frind of mine said,..."if it isn't fun,....then it isn't sustainable"

Women, need guys who are strong when appropriate, but they more prefer guys who are funny and fun.

Ask yourself this,....would you be attracted to her if she was grumpy all the time?

Keep us in the loop.

majik

March 18, 2005
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Good Ideas,
Thank you.
I love doing stuff like that.
I'm still working on that whole idea of not too much too soon.
But, I think that is a case by case situation.

March 18, 2005
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True,

Aaah sorry about that- I just read what I wrote again!!! It came across as being a bit too candid, and a personal p.o.v. only!! She may well want you, and you should explore the relationship nevertheless, as she sounds like she has quite an effect on you. No matter what people say about the sea and fish, (and it's a big ocean out there!) there's really only a few that we really want to swim with..

~love charlie~

March 18, 2005
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I think you should just call her. Be real with her. She probibly thinks you are playing games with her. One minute your nice the next your ignoring her. Maybe she feels like you just want one thing from her. Sounds like she's just playen the game back. If a women sleeps with you on the first night you can pretty much assume that she really liked you. Call her, be honest you don't have to over do it. Just say something like, you know I really enjoy your company, Im not sure what happened but I would like to take you out again if your available.

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