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October 18, 2006
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kirikiri
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married gay woman had a mother figure years back.then she slept with her 'mother figure'.
she has moved from one woman to another.as friends/lovers and now,she's with a woman who is playing mother figure. from day 1 they have been together.inseparable.everywhere the married gay woman goes, the mother figure goes. and both live together now as the husband of the married gay works in another state.
i look forward to your comments.

October 18, 2006
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what type of comments are you looking for? what are you to this person?

October 18, 2006
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How do you know it's her "mother figure" ? How long have they been together?

Seems like they are in love? The married woman should divorce her husband and perhaps marry the other woman instead.

October 18, 2006
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Thanks,guys.I was involved with the woman as a friend before she sought help from a couple and the wife took on the role of mother figure.
both deny it and say that they are mother-daughter.
i don't have any connections to them now but Im wondering if it's possible that a married gay woman can be emotionally involved with another woman and yet be sexually involved with her husband?
the two women have been together 4 years now.and the husband has no idea.

October 18, 2006
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How is it possible?

October 18, 2006
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Yes, it is possible for a woman to be involved with another woman while married to a man. In most cases it's called being bisexual, but some women might put on a front by marrying a man for social reasons, but really feeling she's a lesbian and having a woman on the side.

Frankly I think it's dishonest for a woman to remain married to a man but be sexually involved with ANYONE else, be it male OR female. To me it's adultery either way and if she really believes she's homosexual then it's deceptive to keep carrying on in a marriage and making her husband think she's loyal to him.

If this "mother figure" is really more than that she needs to make a choice. Either break it off with that person and work it out with the husband if she still has feelings for him and the marriage, or stop deceiving her husband like this and come clean with him so he can have a fair shake and possibly move on to find someone more willing to be faithful to him.

October 18, 2006
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Your right. Thanks.

October 19, 2006
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kirikiri,

I agree with lovetocrochet, but I am not sure why this is really something that you are involved in at all?

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October 19, 2006
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good question,cary.good question.maybe i'm harbouring underlying resentment that this person has destroyed many lives and seems to be doing ok.
again,that's far out.

October 20, 2006
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As a friend to this woman, was you falling in love with her or wanting more attention from her?
What she does with her life, should on be any concern to you. Let those that she is involved with find out not you still wondering why and how and what there lives is going to be about.

October 22, 2006
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It is also possible that he knows and tolerates this. Perhaps he also is even involved.

Some people have non-traditional marital arrangements sometimes that others may find unprepared to accept.

I do wonder what makes this your concern. Are you jealous of this woman? (Some women would be!)

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