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married but like another man who is also married what should i do?
February 12, 2004
5:01 pm
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chloeysmomma
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i love my hubby been through alot tryd couseling but did no good iam not leaving him but i dont think an affair will help been thinking about it but havent done anything with anyone eles this guy i have been friends with hes cool and treats me with respect he listens to me and cares about my feelings and isnt critcal of me hes having problems with his own wife should i stay friends with him or should i give up my friendship and countiue in a worthless marriage ? hugs chloeysmomma please dont judge me thanks

February 12, 2004
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Please read the thread entitled "Stay Married?". I think it will give you some good insight.

February 12, 2004
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chloeysmomma---

Hey!! Glad to see you here. Sorry to hear about your situation....

I think I've said enough on the "Stay Married" thread, so I really have nothing else to contribute to this.... I hope you make the right choice, whatever that is for you.

(((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

acj

February 12, 2004
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I'm new here, but may I ask if things are so bad that you've been to counseling, and that hasn't worked... why are you staying? Is there enough positive for you to stay and keep working on it? Are you BOTH willing to work on your marriage? It takes two to tango ya know. An affair won't solve things. Believe me, my brain has been wrapping around that subject itself in recent past. Tempting as it is, I just don't see how it would help to make things better... just more complex. I am working on trying to be happier with myself first before doing anything else. Seems to be working so far, though I'm no expert. Can't make anyone happy unless we are happy with ourselves first. Maybe you should try individual counseling to help you decide to stay or go. I don't see how love can flourish in an unhappy environment. If you are not happy with yourself or home, how will love last? I wish you well. Hope these words helped somehow.

February 12, 2004
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just a thought chloe... stick to friendship with this guy right now everything else on the outside might seem better than what you have at home because yor having difficulty and you might be looking for a way to get out. If hubby has been trying to make it work as well as you have, then try something to add spice into the relationship...not that you havent already its just a thought take what you want and throw the rest away, okay, good luck!
yess

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