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Marley Are you Here
March 2, 2004
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Um, the last time he emailed it was to say

I think my flight gets in around 4pm on wednesday. hope to see you.

So I emailed him back:

When, what airline, flight number? Come on . . .

Haven't heard from him since, don't think he has checked his email since then (sat). I am pretty sure his flight leaves around 8am tomorrow morning so I figure he won't get the last email and will probably call en route.

The screwy thing is, when he first got to CR he emailed me EVERY SINGLE DAY! I finally had to tell him to leave me alone he was making me crazy I mean we are just friends right? so let me live my life and enjoy your vacation. I won't die without you.

So he stopped emailing me after that and at first I was super sad and now I am so happy, b/c for the past 16 days I have not really worried about what he was doing or what would happen when he got back. I have flip-flopped horribly about the airport thing, thinking this is kind of like a game and if I don't go, will he want me more - yada yada yada.

So - I don't know what I will say. I am pretty freaked to see him, it has been over 4 weeks I mean he could be ugly and gross and unclean, ya know? But I bet he is just tan and beautiful like always and then I will be butter in the sun. So I have a couple of fall back plans for tomorrow night - just so if necessary I can drop him off at home and BAIL.

What do you think?

March 2, 2004
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What are your plans? I think that you are like me with Ron when I had to picked him up, I only wanted to, so that it would make him see how cute I still was and want me and then just be noncholant about it,,, but it backfired, so BE careful, but I know how it is, especially when you havent seen someone in a long time, you do know you wont get any sleep tonight right, I bet you are going to do a facial, nails, everything

March 2, 2004
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I got my nails and waxing, etc done on sat! You are too much like me, how funny. I only want him to see me looking FABULOUS!

Why did it backfire with you and Ron? Did he not think you were cute? (I mean obviously he does, since he keeps calling you, etc)Or do you mean b/c you are still going through the psycho-melodrama with him?

Don't know how I am gonna get through work tomorrow, I am already getting nauseated thinking about the fact it is only 24 hours away. AGGGHHHH!

March 2, 2004
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It backfired because I wasnt able to stay noncholant about it,,, cause he looked damn good,,, he still does,, you know what he tells me yesterday, the reason we stay in it is because of the sex? Do you think you can stay in something for long with it just being sex,, yeah you will probably puke...Work tomorrow will suck, you are going to be a emotional mess, thats how I was I even tracked the flight on the internet

March 2, 2004
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Too bad we arent allowed to meet up, I could use a drink, and I bet you could ha ha ha

March 2, 2004
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I would LOVE a drink!!! We can't meet, really? That is a bummer.

Here I found this and thought it sounded like Ron when you were being NICE.

It is also essential that you keep emotional distance from narcissists. They're pretty good at maintaining a conventional persona in superficial associations with people who mean absolutely nothing to them, and they'll flatter the hell out of you if you have something they can use or if, for some reason, they perceive you as an authority figure. That is, as long as they think you don't count or they're afraid of you, they'll treat you well enough that you may mistake it for love. But, as soon as you try to get close to them, they'll say that you are too demanding -- and, if you ever say "I love you," they'll presume that you belong to them as a possession or an appendage, and treat you very very badly right away. The abrupt change from decent treatment to outright abuse is very shocking and bewildering, and it's so contrary to normal experience that I was plenty old before I realized that it was actually my expression of affection that triggered the narcissists' nasty reactions. Once they know you are emotionally attached to them, they expect to be able to use you like an appliance and shove you around like a piece of furniture. If you object, then they'll say that obviously you don't really love them or else you'd let them do whatever they want with you. If you should be so uppity as to express a mind and heart of your own, then they will cut you off -- just like that, sometimes trashing you and all your friends on the way out the door. The narcissist will treat you just like a broken toy or tool or an unruly body part: "If thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off" [Matt. 18:8]. This means you.

March 2, 2004
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we should meet for a drink, I say we do

March 2, 2004
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we can bitch and moan

March 2, 2004
6:27 pm
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OK, where and when? I have class at 7:40 pm at DU tonight and you know tomorrow is the big night . . .

March 2, 2004
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you want to go before class or after your class? we should go before
What areas do you know of Denver where do you go to?

March 2, 2004
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That or we can plan for like TH or FR

March 2, 2004
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we could go tonight at like 9:30 or 9:45 at the campus lounge or something - my favorite bar in Denver is gov's!!! I just love it there, you?

I also have class thur and fri . . . so it is all the same!

March 2, 2004
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I have been to govenors park,,, close to where I work,,, I also like the Spot Bar and Grill in Wash Park, Williams, Lodo's soil dove, love soil dove especially in the summer. so how do we do this do I get your number?

March 2, 2004
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Lets plan for later this week so we can figure it out,,,, cause Im outta here,,,, so glad the day is done with

March 3, 2004
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Aces -

R U HERE?

I think we got busted!

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