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mama, kroika, loving.......HELP....PLEASE..
October 11, 2006
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no, I am not doing well at all...Not at all. I don't know whether to leave and go to my appointment or not.. I don't want them to show up while I am gone...I can't lose my kids mama, I just can't, I do love my babies, I should have done what I knew was the right thing when I had the chance...Now, I am just as much to blame as him, I am going to lose my babies mama, I can't quit crying...Please mama, hold me real tight,,

October 11, 2006
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still here?

October 11, 2006
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Mich....

You have got to pull together for your babies sake.

YES, take the babies and go to your appt. That is very important you keep that appt at the counselor. He is to uphold silence so he cannot call in to social services unless you say the word suicide, dead, kill.... then he might call them.

He can also be your biggest ally w/ Im' scared, I only want to protect my babies, I didn't know what to do, I was checking out my options, I made an appt w/ a divorce attorney. You did this yes?? If not, let's get movin on it.

Honey right now the ball is all in your court. ALL. You and your sanity and love and demeaner is what will keep you those babies and keep you out of trouble.

Do you know what the trusted person said? Did the trusted person say the hubby was abusive? or did the trusted person say you were part of the problem.

October 11, 2006
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((( Mich, holding you tight )))

If you are still here give me answers. I cannot help w/o answers. You cannot help you w/o calming down and keeping your head about you. ok?

October 11, 2006
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Mich I just read back thru...

DO NOT let those babies away from your side right now. Keep them wherever you go and all. To the counselor, to the attorney, etc.

God be w/ you honey. Still praying for you and your babies.

October 11, 2006
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Mich - just got online here...

I understand how scared you must feel right now...

Ok, though this seems right now like its the end of the world, you must look at it from a different prespective...

If it comes down to it, you and your children are now going to have help, have resources, have an intervention. Mich you and your family need this and its not a bad thing at all. This could very well be a blessing.

Understand that child protection does not want to take children from their parents-their not like the child police out looking to destory familes but their job is to protect children if children are being hurt. Now if your children are being abused by their father and you haven't had the balls like you said to stand up to him, this is a good thing hon. They often work with families to keep families/children together - not to tear them apart. That is not their goal.

And if it came down to your children being taken from the home - your children will need their mother now more than ever to get strong...by you wanting to die will not help your kids Mich - they NEED their mother...they need you.

This could very well be the beginning to the greener side Mich - it may just be a blessing in disguise.

October 11, 2006
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I am following your story mich...Please calm down...Listen to mama...I am praying for you too.

October 11, 2006
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((((Mich)))

October 11, 2006
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let me try that hug again...

((((( Mich )))))

October 11, 2006
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I think both hugs were great LL.

October 11, 2006
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mama and loving, I wrote a poem in the middle of the night and would like you to read it; afraid to share and going out on a limb to express myself.

October 11, 2006
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If anyone hears from scared or army today, please let me know...so worried...

October 11, 2006
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GG:

I want to share something I learned and I hope you will take it the right way...

Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow for each day has enough problems of it's own.

What I am trying to say is that all you will do by worrying is give yourself an ulcer or a migraine. I used to be the biggest worrier ever; well, next to my mom.

I have turn things over to my Lord and then I do my best to not worry; although it doesn't always work. But, if he is for us who can be against us.

(((( GG ))))

I know anyone that hears will let you know asap. I will. What thread do you want us to use to contact you??

October 11, 2006
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You are right mama, I have a horrible headache today from the combination of worries, I guess. I have always worried about people and truly care for them. But yes, it is out of my hands. Just put it on the poem thread I guess.

October 11, 2006
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ok will do

October 11, 2006
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Mich~ I'm leaving for work here in a couple of hours and won't be back until late - will be thinking of you and will check in when I get home.

LL

October 11, 2006
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I am here, I will be back to talk to you guys in a little bit, and let you know what is going on, things are still very scary to me, but I just spent three hours with ths psychologist....Talk to you soon,.

October 11, 2006
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hey, Mich... how r u honey?

big hugs ((( mich ))))

October 11, 2006
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(((Mich)))

I just got up... on my way to my own counsellor's appointment.

Very glad to hear you spent several hours with the psychologist.

You did the right thing. I have to go, catch you later.

take care, love kroika

October 11, 2006
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I am hurting mama, and I am so scared of losing my kids, I talked to the nurse and it will probably not be dealt with until tomorrow...Mama, I am so tired, my head hurts so bad, all I have done is cry...

October 11, 2006
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what nurse did you talk to? what did you tell her? what did she tell you to do or expect or anything?

October 11, 2006
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OUr home visiting nurse. I know that she will stand behind me. She has been coming to my house for four years, I know that she will tell them I am a good mom. She deals with those people all of the time. She is a nurse through the county family resource center....She is very sweet. She is going to call me tomorrow and tell me what is going on.... I am never gonna be able to sleep tonight...I am so exhausted..I have cried ALL day. Mama, I don't want to lose my babies...I love them so much...I really want to do right by them, I REALLY do.

October 11, 2006
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Mich.. You will not lose your babies. You ARE a good mom.

Now, you do me a favor.. Armyleo is hurtin really bad and could use your encouragement and you telling her that you are gonna be ok. Tell her it was hard, but the first step is the biggest. Well, you tell her in your words and how you feel, I am not telling you what to say. But she needs help now.

Hurting Today.

Thanks hon.

((( holding you still )))

October 11, 2006
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mama,

I am hurtin so bad, is that really a good idea? It is hard to hold someon when you just want to be held. I know that sounds so horrible, I want her to get help, I don't want to see her hurt anymore, she deserves so much better, and I care so much, but I am a mess that there are not words for...I don't want to scare her or anything else...I don't want to push her and I feel her deep desire to puke, I can't even hold my head up, I am afraid, so very afraid... All I have done is cry, but mama, if you think that me trying is a good idea then I will try, but I can't make any promises...

October 11, 2006
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HONEY.

Who better to talk to her than someone that just walked thru the fire and is comin out on the other side.

If you cannot I understand. I won't push you. She does lean toward you tho. She does identify w/ you I think.

It's up to you. Nobody will feel differently toward you one way or the other. We can only do what we can. That goes for you too.

(((HUGS)))

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