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making peace
October 7, 2004
8:34 am
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we'll i wrote b/f e-mail there is no talking on phone and discussing things . so i wrote a very intelligent civil letter .explaining my codependency and his addiction doesn't mix. i have issues and as he does .hoping he takes the time to do his own soul seaching as i am doing mine . and before i can have a normal relationship i must take charge and better care of me .i am seeking couseling. as i know this all stems from a dysfunctional family with an abusive mother i played the part of smoothing every thing over. it wasn't important how i hurt as long as everyone else was happy . i have carried this into my adult life. as a result i settled for less than i should have we all know how it works. i have a lot of work ahead of me and i'm very excited to get started.i love bruce he is my best friend when things are good. i doubt we can have a relationship again because he won't change . i know him well enough and realize he had this problem before i met him.the beginning of the relationship we were so much in love he had no desire to gamble . i only saw a really beautiful person. good can come out of this .i hope when he realizes i am getting help maybe he will and put an end to this destructive cycle.that would be great huh? but i am on my own mission and can only hope he follows. this was wrote with dry eyes . things are truley happening here i am strong . i love all those that have supported me thru this the money i saved too lol (free therapy). seriously i 'm here for you guys too.

October 7, 2004
8:48 am
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WOW!!! Sunray, you have such inspiration, and i am so glad you are taking care of you!!! I am glad you recognized there was a problem with your BF gambling, and with your codependency, enough for you to stop the relationship, and begin a new relationship with yourself. I wish you the best of luck on this new path of YOU that you are taking & please let me know how all goes!!!

hugs from Camer

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