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May 11, 2010
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(((curious64))). Yes, being true to our feelings, and being able to post our honest feelings openly on this site is what I believe is the greatest thing about AAC. You dont ever have to apologize to anyone about your feelings.

May 11, 2010
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yes, ty
Curious and Dstar...
i feel the same way! like we said b4
it was not 'directed' to anyone on here, just feelings that all...

that IS the BEST thing about AAC u should b able 2 share ur feelings on anything and not have 2 apologize for them,,

((((hugggsss))))

May 11, 2010
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(((innerturmoil)))- I liked your post. I am happy to see that you expressed yourself here. I hope you were able to find the answer you were looking for.

May 12, 2010
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No curious, its not you...I was in a bad place and that post just really did not help, but its nothing you did to me, no hard feelings:)

Destinystar, i have never met you and yet you seem to have alot to say to me, its my posts? Don't like them? you do not have to read, just like you...i too am entitled to have my say and no I was not trying to start trouble, that is not who I am all bout...sorry but your wrong on that too..

you do not know me or my life, so please save your judgement of me, thank you.

Be well:)

May 12, 2010
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and yes it is good to have an opinion and to express that opinion, but honestly if it hurts people...maybe you should think before you post? Just a thought:)

May 12, 2010
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BAREFOOTGIRL maybe if you made a list of everything that hurts you we will know what not to say. I dare say you seem like the kind of person that has a long list.

May 12, 2010
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Hi Destinystar! I had a good mothers day, thank you! On the pets, I'm trying to get a fountain going with fish in it. Sounds so simple but it's not! It's just two wine barrels, one dumps into the other. Can't keep fish alive and can't figure out why. I've spent so much time online reading and a bunch of money on stuff like algaecide, nitroban, ammonia stuff, ph test kits, etc etc. and they die. It's frustrating.

BFgirl, How was Your mother's day?

andii

May 12, 2010
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thx every1,
curious.. ur right...~ !! thats prob it!!
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thx, Dstar also..

Hi BFG
sorry ur in such a bad place. do u have a thread on here now??

May 12, 2010
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Palomina,

You come out of nowhere to write:

"BAREFOOTGIRL maybe if you made a list of everything that hurts you we will know what not to say. I dare say you seem like the kind of person that has a long list."

This is unkind, rude, and not at all supportive. Shame on you. Who is "we"? Barefootgirl took responsibility for her issues. And I believe her discussion did not include you.

Why exactly did you post what you posted?

MP

May 12, 2010
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marypoppins I will post whatever my little heart desires. Who are you to tell me I'm rude. You need to get over yourself. These threads are for anyone and everyone. For honest, open communication.

May 12, 2010
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How interesting: "I will post whatever my little heart desires". Destinystar has written that exact phrase so many times on this site over the years. How sad.

May 12, 2010
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Well, Barefootgirl, you are obviously perfectly able to stand up for yourself. If, however, a poster is being rude, unkind, and unsupportive, do not hesitate to report that poster to the Site Coordinator. All the best to you! ~MP

May 12, 2010
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I once posted that there were some very similar stories and some of them weren't adding up. I really hurt someone who was in a lot of turmoil. I have refretted making that post ever since. We all come her because we need help and support. Pouncing on others serves no purpose. I recently read that sometmes the arrows (words) you shoot at others says more about you than it does think.

Peace to all

Bitsy

May 12, 2010
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Thank you mary...if this continues I will copy this entire thread and send it to the sc...

Have a wonderful day

Fyi...
I am no longer hurt by this and for now on I will leave this thread in peace and simply move on...its not productive, its not kind and its negative...

Time for me to take my own advice and say nothing more...

May 12, 2010
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there might be some, I would think. I had a bad experience on boards for other things. But I would give benifit of doubt too, for the sake of those who need a place like this.

Like me.

May 12, 2010
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marypoppins. Paloma is not me. If Paloma is annoying you or anyone else please do inform the SC. Paloma may be quoting me, but I guarantee Paloma is not me and is not representing me. Please do not associate me with Palomas posts anymore. Thank you.

May 12, 2010
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BFG- Your plan to contact the SC about Palomas post sounds like a good plan to me. Hopefully the SC will take care of the situation. Might help if you ignored Paloma.

May 12, 2010
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(((Bitsy)))). I know what you mean.

May 12, 2010
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innerturmoil- you are welcome.

May 12, 2010
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andii- I started a thread called pet fish and posted a little note to you.

May 12, 2010
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Barefootgirl,
I've already written the SC about this thread. Seems there is some confusion about what exactly "open and honest" communication is. We are certainly not free to say whatever we like and never apologize for any of it. That's definitely a rule dysfunctional people have, but I believe we are to show one another respect on this site. The SC is pretty wise. ~MP

May 13, 2010
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Hello--

Open and honest communication comes from within ourselves, not 'at' another person. It is communication about ourselves, our feelings, our experiences. It is communication that is 100% not intended to hurt another.

Open & honest is not underhanded, condescending, insulting, judgmental, or manipulative. It doesn't tell, it explains. It doesn't demand, it gives.

When we post something that is intended to hurt or put someone down, it usually does hurt someone.

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May 13, 2010
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marypp
'ty' for contacting the 'site coordinator'
if ur that offended by 'one or 2' people's posts theres no need 2 report about the 'whole' thread.. i told every1 b4 it was not DIRECTED at any one person or one thread, not my fault if one or 2 people take it 2 personally , i didnt even know them when i wrote the first post.. if u r offended by them,,
certainly report them, but i meant no offense toward anyone and im sorry, ill never vocalize any of my opinions/thoughts on here anymore if people cannot be more mature and NOT handle themselves like "school children"
"im gonna go tell the teacher" La La

anyway,,,
sorry 2 all the 'mature' friends of mine on here,, hope u r all doing good today!

May 13, 2010
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Thank you, Site Coordinator, for posting.

MP

May 13, 2010
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Thanks mary and sc:)

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