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Mad as Hell and I'm Not Going to Take it Anymore!!
August 13, 2005
11:18 am
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Borrowed that from Peter Finch from the movie Network...anyone feel like adding to the post on what you would really like to say to your ex...go right ahead...let's get it all out...and move forward together!!

Dear Ex,

I slept last night...first time in almost a week. It's amazing what a little sleep can do for one's brain and body. A little rest and you can see things so much more clearly.

Yesterday was the day from hell. Still continue to spin your web of lies trying to make me go crazy. I told everyone last night. I am soooo done with your drama.

You want your freedom and want me to move forward with my life...what do you think I've given you? You got all your stuff...I don't contact you. I've let you go. You contact me whenever she is not around to watch over you...you try to make ammends when she's not looking and then when she is you start stuff with me...GROW UP!!! Stop harrassing me and making death threats. I am leaving you alone. Whenever I have a good time, you just can't take it...you have to try and spoil it..well it doesn't work...I know it just makes you angrier seeing me laugh and smile again.

Stop the jealousy dude, it's not attractive when you told me to move forward with my life...why do you care if other people find me attractive...afraid that I'll find happiness with someone else while you find happiness in your bottle?

You claim you need medication to get your mood swings under control...well we got you the help you claimed you needed and then you checked out of their on your own. ...we gave it our best shot.

So you told your dad you were afraid of what they would think if you broke up with me and have been drowning in the beer for 6mos now trying to deal with it...LOL!! I'm sorry, wasn't that a committment ring you gave me in May and didn't you say in June that nothing, including your best friend would ever come between us? So now you promise your dad you've given up the beer only to find out you got drunk again yesterday...So who are you blaming for the past 10yrs and for your drinking yesterday?

You say I am out trying to make his life miserable. Really, well let me share a little secret with you...you got everything your little heart ever desired when you were living here. Now you have nothing...only what you came into MY house with. That's it honey...you gave it all up!! You had everything taken care of for you and oops, didn't I even help you start a business and teach you how to run it? Uh, no reality check time honey...that would be you turning your back on your responsibilities to your son (not paying child support), not paying your bills, turning your back on everyone who has ever tried to help you, and running your company into the ground to the point where your silent partner had to take you out of the business in order to save what is left.

Well honey, I am done...You tried to break me emotionally and financially, but you couldn't break my spirit..but I'm turning it all around effective immediately I am taking my life back. The life you sought to steal away from me. You wanted out...oh baby you got it...now run with it and prove to everyone that you can make it on your own!!

So you just go and life your life...find someone else to blame as you drown your sorrows in your bottle of beer or JD. I'm getting off this carousel ride and leaving you to go around and round in circles.

Signed,

Your EX!!

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Wow does that ever feel good to get all that out of my system!! FINALLY!!! (Yes, I am screaming now!!) No need to post any comments...just releasing everything that I have been carrying around in me the past few weeks...feel free to chime in and send a letter to your ex and get it all out...talk about a soul cleansing!!

Off to start my new life!!

August 13, 2005
11:30 am
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PS...almost forgot...giving your new GF my pet name, giving your new puppy the name we had selected, and moving to the place that we were moving to in 3 yrs...not very original dude...I suggest being a little nice to your new GF and coming up with some original material...after all she is paying your tab now!!

August 13, 2005
3:24 pm
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Dear stbx,

I'm tired of your games. I'm tired of your dependence on me to make you "happy". I'm tired of being put down for being a woman. I can't help it, I was born that way. And DAMN proud! I want a man in my life that respects and honors me for being a woman. I know where this comes from within you. Your mother never loved you the way you needed to be loved. So you have spent your entire life looking for it. I have been sensitive to that fact. But I WILL NOT be your punching bag, EVER!!! I have loved you better and treated you better than anyone has, yet you take me for granted. You think it's ok to verbally regurgitate on me, sweep it under the rug, and in your words, "not live in the past". Which means, let's just not talk about it anymore. Well, hello??? Haven't you LEARNED from all your broken past relationships that it WILL just fester and show up again in the near future. It doesn't go away unless 2 mature adults come together to DISCUSS the issues. No matter how painful it is.

I have enjoyed the 2 years we have spent getting to know each other. That's the hard part of letting go. Knowing how compatible we really are, knowing how much we enjoy each other's company and doing alot of the same things, knowing how many times you made me laugh with your adorable wit and contagious charm. BUT, I can NO LONGER IGNORE the fact that you haven't worked in the 2 years I have known you, you blame others for your bad luck, you are angry, and bitter, and miserable inside. I have thrown you a lifeline MORE THAN ONCE, and not only did you refuse it, but you scoffed at me. My faith is very important to me, it is WHO I AM, and when you want to hurt me, you like to take the low blows. To hit me where I am most vulnerable. Well, I'm done trying to figure it all out. After this last "drama" that is still unresolved (because you have REFUSED to take the first step, and we are now 21 days with no contact), I RELEASE YOU! I am thinking VERY clearly and have considered EXACTLY what I am doing. I have alot to offer! I am beautiful, kind, loving, generous, capable. All of the things you fell in love with. I still am and will always be!

It's your loss, baby! I wish you peace and happiness, because I truly did love you. Love you enough to let you go...

***Thanks, Sadie, for starting this "vent" thread! I feel better now:)

August 13, 2005
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Love the verbal regurgitate!!! LOVE IT!!! Nicely done honey!! Nicely done!!

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