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Lying about his age, and not admitting it.
May 8, 2007
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So, here it is 4 nights later, and I can honestly say, I am not hurting. I know it's over for real, and I dont care! I'm so glad.

I sleep great at nite.

May 8, 2007
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MissN

This is great news. You made a good decision to remove the pain of rejection when you disconnected from him.

(((MissN)))

May 9, 2007
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It's hard to believe I finally did it, althought I know it was a LONG time coming.

Time will tell I know. But like I said before, I've never been more sure and confident that I am done this. I was enabling the situation. I have removed myself from it...and it feels really good.

May 16, 2007
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Atalose, you out there?

May 20, 2007
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I am so sorry miss, I have been here but have not made my way all the way these threads.

What up, what's been going on?

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

May 21, 2007
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Hey Atatlose. Did you read my last threads? Still have had no contact with 'phone guy' since I told him I didnt want to talk to him anymore.

I admit, I still think of him. But I know I did the right thing. I did what I had to do.

I even catch myself missing talking to him, but that's better than being miserable while I was talking to him, I guess.

I've been seeing someone new. He's super sweet, and seems genuinely intersted in me. Nothing about the relationship seems unhealthy or one-sided. It just feels right- right now.

May 21, 2007
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Good for you I am so glad you met someone and it's going very well for you.

I think we all tend to think about our past relationships and miss what they brough to us. Those feelings will soon go away and when you do think back you'll feel so proud of yourself for making the decision you did.

I wish you all the best with your friend, isn't it nice to really have someone in person and not a voice on the phone.

Atalose

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May 21, 2007
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Hi I made contact with my ex recently. I admit too to think of him and that has never really changed in the past two years. But what has changed is the way i feel after we have had contact. I did not get all depressed or suffer anxiety. I missed him of course but it did not set me back to contact him this time. And I think it was because I had not contacted him in a long time. I don't regret contacting him either. My life is going on and it is better. And maybe there is a chance for someone else to enter it. I don't feel so closed-off to the idea of it anymore. How about you?

May 21, 2007
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Hey Taj, so good to hear from you.

Yes, it's funny how when I made the decision to end that 'phone' thing, something real came into my life. I gues it never did before because I was holding out in hopes something would evolve with the other one.

Your situation is a bit different. I am glad it didnt set you back to contact him.

I know I will want to talk to him again....but right now, I cant. It's not fair to me that I have been there for him on the phone all this time......yet he has not even given me want I wanted. Just to meet/see him.

And I dont think I should talk to him again. I should do nothing now I think. I did all I could!

I wish we could have met and stayed in touch and kept a friendship. But I made all the effort. He did not. How much more effort can I put forth?

TAJ? can I ask why you made contact?

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