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April 21, 2006
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you two are really lucky to have found each other...you are so warm and supportive of each other that it gives everyone hope.....

im not going to read your threads any more..I have till now because it cheers me up to see 2 people communicating in such an easy humourous way but Im kind of starting to feel a bit like a vouyeur.....or someone who is eavesdropping on a private conversation

Pity you two couldnt meet up but then again maybe the anonimity is what makes it so special????

good luck to you both and long may you have each other to talk to!!!

April 21, 2006
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Had to make oatmeal for the little one.

Poor thing is caught in the middle. She sees her father kiss and touch another female. She has asked me why he doesn't kiss and hug me. I tell her to ask her father. I can't explain it too her.

He sees nothing wrong with what he is doing.

April 21, 2006
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Thank you sleepless.. We are each others support.

April 21, 2006
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Gone to lunch?

April 21, 2006
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Its lovely to see.... anyway, Hi to u both from near Birmingham, in the UK. Have urselves a good weekend & be happy xx

April 21, 2006
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Bruising his ego would be a bad think - why?

It's natural to question yourself. Some amount of caution is good. However, don't doubt your God-given abilities. You have a good head on your shoulders and a great heart. You're capable of finding someone with whom you can have a healthy relationship. I know you can do it.

I'm pleased that you like my qualities. Know that there are a lot of us out there who will treat you with the care and respect you deserve.

Smiling for you....Lt

April 21, 2006
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sleepless,

Thank you for your kind words. Support is one of the true benefits of this site. Please feel free to join in the discussion if you want. You are not intruding. 1L1 and I have been sharing insights on various threads for a long time now.

Peace be with you.....Lt

April 21, 2006
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Chardie,

Thanks again for your kind words. Not all support needs to be gloomy. Some can be upbeat. Enjoy your weekend too.

Lt

April 21, 2006
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1L1,

It's tough when the children are caught in the middle. I remember during my first divorce having my two kids trying to bring their mother and me back together, even after we started dating others. I also remember tearful calls from my son pleading to come live with me. All of these things tug at our heartstrings. I can feel for you. Being strong is the best way to help your little one.

Lt

April 21, 2006
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1L1,

Sorry, someone dropped by my office for a few minutes. I have to leave for meetings soon too. I hope you're feeling more content than you were earlier. 🙂

Sending happy thoughts your way.

Namaste.....Lt

April 21, 2006
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Bruising his ego would be a good thing.

I have even thought of having one of my brothers co-workers hang around when he dropped off the little one. I then thought that would confuse her more.

April 21, 2006
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A lot goes on in those little minds. I learned that as my kids got older and shared with me their memories and insights. They are VERY perceptive. Right now, you are her one point of stability in life. It's important not to compromise that. You want her to remain feeling secure.

However, there's nothing that says you can't drop hints to your ex about other interests or activities. Let him stew a bit.

Am I thinking like a gal now? 😉

Lt

April 21, 2006
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Yes you are. Very proud of you!

Mind if I use you? No comments on who you or where youare but that you exist. Then there is no lie and I get to smile.

Something along the lines of "there is this really great guy that cares for me and has offered me support." "He makes me laugh and feel good about myself. I get hugs from him often."

Something like that?

April 21, 2006
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Thank you. Happy to show my feminine side. Can I still keep my beard? 😉

Use me? By all means. I'm used to that after my second marriage. 😉 But seriously, I think what you propose is fine. Let him stew and fuss. I would be honored to help you. I really do care about you. Let me know how it goes.

Gotta run to my afternoon meetings. Take care, smile often, and enjoy your weekend.

Sending you those warm hugs....Lt

April 21, 2006
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Now, now now, you know what I mean by use.

Make me feel guilty now!

Have a good day!

Winks to ya!

April 21, 2006
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1L1,

No need to feel guilty. I was just having a little fun at your expense. Have a great time at the gym.

c ya!....Lt

April 21, 2006
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Hi love...Hope your meeting went well. It is gloomy outside. Kind of explains some of my mood.

Thank you for your kindness. I am forever in your debt for letting me rattle on and you listening.

I promise to use you well! Wink!

With a tear in my eye, I am smiling at you...

1L1

April 21, 2006
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1L1,

I understand gloomy. After a week of sunny warm weather, it got cloudy this afternoon and began raining. We're supposed to get 2-3" of rain tomorrow. Yikes! Might have to head for higher ground. Instead of judging the robot challenge, perhaps we should build an arc. Ya think? 🙂 I keep thinking how beautiful and lush the countryside will look soon.

Hey, we all take care of each other here, right? You needed a friend today and I was here for you. You and others have been there for me when I was in need. Like I've said before, recovery is a team sport. Relax tonight and know that I have your back.

Sweet lady, cry if you have to. Let it out, otherwise the tension will poison you. Move forward confidently, knowing that you are a worthy woman most men would die for. It's amazing to me that your ex let you go. He obviously realizes his mistake, but isn't man enough to be honest about trying to win you back. Ok well, his loss! You deserve sooooo much better than the likes of him! I sure there's a nice Irish hunk out there (a Sean Connery look-a-like?) dreaming of a lass just like you. Please be patient until you find each other.

Wishing you comfort & patience....Lt

p.s. I love the winks and smiles too.

April 21, 2006
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1L1,

Are you okay?

Lt

April 22, 2006
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Sean Connery...I love that man. His only flaw is that he is Scottish!!!HAHAHAHA!!!

I am okay. Just hiding out.

Have a good day sweets!

April 22, 2006
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Hi, are you here?

April 23, 2006
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Hi 1L1,

I hope you had an enjoyable day with your friend Shiela. Are you feeling better now? Did you make any progress with your bike?

Peace.....Lt

April 23, 2006
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Some progress on my bike. Searching for parts now.

Had an enjoyable day until my ex started his garbage. I have to admit he gave an openended question and I answered it. He didn't like the response.

Anyway, off to work.

Enjoy your day!

Smiling at you!

April 23, 2006
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Good night my dear friend, I hope all is well with you.

Thinking fondly of you...!l1

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