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lsp is back in need of help
June 23, 2004
12:40 pm
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well here i am , sitting here,cuts on my arms, i cant take this anymore, this emma thing is way too hard. i met up wit her and sum mates out of skool on saturday and man did she look beautiful, and then dan starts puttin his arms round her, they still dont go out yet but ive bin told by my mate she does fancy him cos she told him, and seeing her reminded me of what im without, ive bin crying alot lately, and ive begun cutting, i cant take much more of this shit. plz has anyone got any advice?

June 23, 2004
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but....i know its not a good idea but its been helping ill get rid of the blade, its a start i guess, thanks for replying

June 23, 2004
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LSP,

Take every bit of strength that you have and TRY TRY TRy to find something in your head that makes you feel good. Something about yourself or something that you did, ANYTHING. When you do, FOCUS. I know your mind is fully, completely wrapped around her. But if you are going to make it, this is what you do... Take that good thought and find a comfortable place. Lie down, close your eyes and focus on that good thought FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN. The first time you do, it may be for only a few seconds. But KEEP TRYING! EVERY CHANCE YOU GET. Evrytime a bave a bad thought, which is always. start thinking of your good though1. You will find the more you practice on having good thoughts the periods will get longer and longer. BUT YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT. NO ONE CAN DO IT FOR YOU. You will start to feel better. Then you can start thinking about and doing fun things. Go out and play and enjoy your life. You will find yourself getting mad at her for how she treated you. You DON'T DESERVE IT. You will start to move on. And as far as cutting you need to stop. That is your frustration showing up, Yes it is frustrating. But you don't deserve what you are doing to yourself. PLEASE SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.

God bless you. I am praying for you.
KG

June 23, 2004
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that is a ghood idea but all the good thoughts i can think of are cos ive helped her in some way or shes been nice to me, and now she is bein alot nicer so its no longer to do with how she treats me, she treats me like a true mate.

ive thrown away the blade now, and as far as pro help .... well where? im a kid i dont have that kinda money, i know i can get it for free but i cant get there

June 23, 2004
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I agree, if you are at the point of cutting yourself get some professional help right away.

p.s. are you misspelling some words on purpose like school and been? Why are you misspelling words?

June 23, 2004
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LSP,

You and I both know you have good thoughts that don't involve her. I don't know how old you are, but if you are young, thoughts of being a kid are not that far off. Did you play with a kite? A puppy? Play with other kids? Remember? If you do, relive THOSE thoughts. Have you ever slid down a rock in a waterfall? I did. Have you ever laughed before you met her? You know you did. As far as professionla help I don't what country your live. I live in Califoria. I can get help from the state, medi-cal, and the county MSP. Go to a hospital that has Behavior Health Services, they can get you on the right path. I read in a book, Co-Dependent No MOre, make your recovery your #1 priority. You are thinking of her anyway. Why not think of her in a healing way. You have a lot of work to do, NOW GO DO IT! You don't have time to lie around and think of her, You have a lot of work to do thinking about yourself. Now GO! 🙂

KG

June 24, 2004
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thanks guys, i have been thinking of pro help for a while, im feeling abit better today though, maybe it did help maybe its just ups and downs, i dont know, im going to the doctors later because of my asthma and i need a checkup on it, hopefull he dont notice my arm but if he does he does.

and the reason i was missspelling words i `cos i use msn messenger and on there i say "skool, bin, u ect.." i try not to but its a hard habbit when im on there all the time.

happy thoughts, yeh youre right i do hve a few happy memories theyre not like oh lets go jump up and down and smile all day memories but they are happy,

June 24, 2004
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You will have ups and downs. Enjoy the up and enjoy the downs. What I mean about that is... you have to grieve to get it out of your system. But grieve the right way. DOWN CUT YOURSELF and don't got too down for long periods of time. As far as the doctor... I work in the medical profession, for almost 30 years. Don't expect the doctor to "notice" your cuts. You have to take an active part on you illness. TELL the doctor. They may or may not give you the proper attention you deserve. You have to seek psychological help on your own. Have you heard the saying, "If you want something right, do it yourself"? GO TO THE HOSPITAL. It's hard I know, But someone will help you. There are many, many people in need of behavior health, but just keep trying. YOU ARE JUST AS IMPORTANT AS THEN...NOW GO! You have a lot of work to do.

KG

June 25, 2004
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its not that easy tho. i dont want people to know about it all, i dont mind my mates knowing

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