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LOVINGLIFE... COULD YOU HELP AND READ THIS PLEASE
October 12, 2006
10:25 pm
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OK.. MY SITUATION IS ON TWO THREADS:
1-- SANTINO...i'M BACK
2-- SANTINO .. READ THIS
IF POSSIBLE COULD YOU READ THIS AND RESPOND .. I NEED SOME HELP

October 12, 2006
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Hi needingto heal~

I read your sitz - it hurts, it's confusing, you know what you need to do but don't know exactly how to go about doing it... you are in crisis mode right now...take some deep breathes, relax, and say to yourself..."I have landed on the best website on the web to help me get through this!!" You are in good hands here. Many of us now the feeling all too well. 4 months ago- I came in crisis mode and today well, I'm like a new person : ) not just like a new person, I am a new person.

I bumped up the No Contact Thread. I'd suggest to write out your story and post it in there...Ma Strong (StronginHim77) still pops in there to offer New No Contacter's support and wisdom, and others will as well. I'll too check in there later. If you just start posting and posting, as well as going back and reading alot on the No Contact thread you'll start feeling a little better and maybe gets some ideas on what to do.

Wished that I had more to offer right now, but the good thing is your here, and it will be the start to getting the crisis mode to slow down some. Take care, it does get better (we all say that-because it does get better- though it doesn't do a darn bit of good saying that until one gets there!)

October 12, 2006
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thank you lovinglife for responding... i feel so much better now that i have been on this site for several days now.. i am grateful for the help and all the suggestions.. i will post on the no contact thread like you mentioned.. i know that i can do it because i was able to do it with my ex-husband who i was married and had two kids with... so i think that i could do it now with the ex boyfriend......thanks again

October 12, 2006
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say, I'm heading to take a long bubble bath and will try to check back here in a bit if it doesn't knock me out : )

...another option for tonight if you need to talk is to start a thread like ... "Is anyone up, need to talk..." But do for sure get your story on the No contact Thread.

Glad your here and welcome

(( needingtoheal ))

October 12, 2006
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you been here for several days?! I'm so sorry that I didn't realize that... well, welcome anyways!!

October 12, 2006
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thanks.. i did exactly what you had suggested and i really do appreciate your help... thanks so much... i know that i need to end this relationship but it is still like a loss to me .. i guess that is because he was a crutch for when i was grieving over my ex-husband...
i know that i will be better off and i have done this before about my ex-husband although i have to deal with him sometimes because of the kids... but i have also let a lot of that go too because his life is his life and it is none of my business ...

October 12, 2006
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thanks.. i did exactly what you had suggested and i really do appreciate your help... thanks so much... i know that i need to end this relationship but it is still like a loss to me .. i guess that is because he was a crutch for when i was grieving over my ex-husband...
i know that i will be better off and i have done this before about my ex-husband although i have to deal with him sometimes because of the kids... but i have also let a lot of that go too because his life is his life and it is none of my business ...

October 12, 2006
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sorry for the repeat

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