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Loving this site
June 26, 2009
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I found this site by accident and since finding it visit each day.

Your advice to my posts have exposed me to a community of people who know what I'm going through. That has be invaluable.

The opportunity to share my thoughts and what I have learned so far is also very satisfying.

Anyway I have made it a point in my life to make sure I tell people how I appreciate the good things that they do.

Nice work guys.

Thankyou for letting me be a part of it.

June 26, 2009
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yes FF, this site is remarkable....huh, i've been on it for over 5 years, sigh.....I guess its a good thing, its helped me thru the years! Keep posting!!!

June 26, 2009
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hey FF, nice to hear from you! i love this site, have been going on and off this site for almost 4 years, i guess. it's part of my life's journey, and now more than ever.

lovin this site too! 🙂

June 26, 2009
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Thats exactly how I feel about this site FF...the regulars like Camer, Atalose and a few others make it very special..there are others that I cannot remember right now..but doesnt mean that I didnt appreciate them..just their names are a bit hard to remember.

I havent seen a few lately..like destiny, MaStrong.. where are you guys?

 

 

2bHappy

June 26, 2009
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I agree, and appreciate this site, a place to come where it's members are understanding and supportive.

June 27, 2009
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Firefighter, I agree. This site has been amazing for me as well. I wish we could all hug each other for real every now and then or have a reunion of some sort. This works for me though and I'm way beyond appreciative, grateful, touched, and all those other things. We all rock!!!

June 30, 2009
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I am pretty new to this site and I have found such comfort on this site. Individuals that care without even knowing one another....It is nice to know we all go through similar issues and we are not alone...this is our own little community and I agree fantas, it would be nice to get a hug from those that help us deal on this site...

Thank you all for posting and sharing....especially atalose thank you ((hugs))

This site is amazing!!!!!!! 🙂

June 30, 2009
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I think we are all very fortunate to have this site, helping each other all the way in our journey of life.

With the new combers it helps me because it reminds we where I was and my own struggles with life, relationships and understand this thing called codependency. It helps keep me on my toes and not relapse backwards to ways of thinking and behaviors that just did not work for me in productive healthy ways. And I hope that with so many on here who offer so much personal experience that the new comers can see that there are healthier ways to approach life that can bring us happiness and peace.

I remember when I began my own recovery journey and a special person who understood me and where I was at in life explained this to me………….

We are all in the same life boat it’s just that some of us have been rowing a little longer then others.

(((FireFighter)))
(((CAMER)))
(((sunshine88)))
(((2BHAPPY)))
(((positivetrooper)))
(((fantas)))
(((PaleBlueSky)))

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

July 5, 2009
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I agree totally, this site is actually a real blessing. It's the best of what the Internet, and the Internet users, have to offer.

July 5, 2009
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As a reminder to everyone this site does continue to run because of donations. Donations that are so minimal and certainly not required in order to participate but welcomed.

Check out the donation in the upper right hand corner on the main page and see what you can contribute.

I know for me the minimal amount I have contributed has been well worth its weight in gold as I certainly have received far more then I could have ever imagined from this site and all of you.

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

July 6, 2009
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I agree that this site is a blessing. I have been here for almost 5 years...through my divorce, custody battles, the death of my father, two relationships and just a whole lot of life's ups and downs.

This site has given me the strength to move forward. I'm now in CoDa groups and individual counseling, working through issues that I should have addressed a long time ago. I found I needed to grieve the loss of my marriage, and my father, before I could handle the rest. Now, I think I'm ready.

atalose is right...donations are what keeps us going. I've only donated a few times over the years, but I given when and what I can. It doesn't take much.

((((aac)))) thanks for being there...

July 8, 2009
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I was not aware of donations for this site.

This site has helped me a lot and I just made my first donation and will continue to do so.

I have started a journey and wouldn't have done without this site.

July 10, 2009
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I've just found this site a couple of weeks ago and this has helped me more than I can say. I first wrote about my alcoholic husband and his need to feel feminine. I'm no help to anyone as I'm on a new journey starting a new life. I can relate to everyone who has replied as I'm 54, been played for a fool, used, you name it and I have been there and done that for much to long. Thanks

July 10, 2009
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Misteri,

I disagree - everyone's struggle helps me because it causes me to question my actions and feel like I'm not alone.

July 12, 2009
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I recently found this site and believe it to be a blessing.Just to know that your not alone in working on your Co-dependant issues I think will really help me.It seems people who are not Co-dependant dont seem to understand.

July 12, 2009
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Lanigirl,

What you said is true. This site helps me that I am not alone and that others struggle just like I have for way to long and I just finally decided to do something about it. This site has given me courage to try and let go.

July 12, 2009
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Misteri,

The not being alone part is so healing. I'm so glad it's encouraged you to make changes. I can't put into words how much it helps me to know this site is available and that I can tap into support.

July 12, 2009
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Happy to know that I can give back to this site! I wasnt aware that I could give donations till I read this thread. This site is completely unbelievable. I have only been on here a few weeks and I am simply amazed at the support that I have seen. Thanks to everyone that gives priceless advice and personal experiences.

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