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December 8, 2000
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zauchka
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Love does not exist. Only kids and naive romantics believe in love. What's the use of fooling yourself by saying that the guy by your side is just the right person for you? It could be anybody after all!!!

December 8, 2000
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love doesn't really suck.. it's absolutely magical.. if you were to have "successful love".. your happiness can surpass the richest man in the world.. but if your love fails.. then you will probably sink in the deepest depths of hell.. love is risky.. so you have to be extremely cautious .. heartaches can probably alter the way you see things in life negatively.. it's a spell that is placed on you for a long period of time until you finally find a cure for it.. and when successfully in love?.. you will see flowers grow within your soul.. sounds like fairytale? just wait and you'll see.. if it doesn't exist to you.. then you cant say it "sux".. becuase it simply doesn't exist in you yet.

December 9, 2000
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zauchka,

Hang in there with the rest of us stranger. I'd love to hand you some great inspirational moments but alas -I too have yet to discover love. The nearest love of my life was cuddling up by the radiator in the kitchen with a beautiful Golden Retriever named Gemma when I was younger.(And a few nights a week at that.)
I shall take with thanks the advice from `i must admit its not much fun' and at this stage declare myself the poorest man in the world.

Lets hang in there....the future !

December 9, 2000
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I guess, I have to agree with your point of view, or, at least, with some parts of it. Maybe I still haven't found "love." But what's the use of finding it? Do you believe love can last forever? Do you believe that after spending many years together people can still "love" each other? In my opinion they simply get used to being together. In best case. Most people, however, start hating or contempting each other. Then why should we strive for higher feelings if it is to end so badly?

December 9, 2000
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love isn't something you would find.. but if you do find it.. that's wonderful too.. it's just come hitting you unexepectedly out of no where.. becuase it is naturally built inside you.. some people may come to experiencing this .. and some may not.. it isn't a neccessity in life if you dont acknowledge it.. or hasn't been discovered within yourself.. and it can be avoided as well if you are fully aware of your feelings.. and you know the consequences that it may bring... if you question the purpose of love.. you have to ask yourself if you are happy living on your own .. if you are happy with your surroundings and your everday life. and if you are.. then you dont really need to love anyone.. and love isn't something that suppose to be "eternal".. it has it's own good and bad endings.. it's absolutely unpredictable.. and people shouldn't go on fearing the unpredicatable outcome of it either..

December 11, 2000
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I truly don't believe that love sucks,
it's just that a lot of people are not realistic about love or any other aspect of their lives.

Like marriage, it's really a job, in most parts because it is unrealistic to promise someone that you will be there for them and by them for the rest of your live long days. People change, conditions change, attitudes change, therefore we have to keep trying to keep a marriage viable by trying couples counseling, therapy,etc.

Just keep the faith and give yourself a chance to at least experience what love feels like and if the person you feel it for is worth your time both now and in the future.

December 11, 2000
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Yeah, love definately isn't like the movies. And you only really know love when you've experienced it. It's not passion, or excitement, or lust. It's somethign entirely different, on a higher plane.

It is like a job. Sometimes it's great, other times it sucks. Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it's hard. And true love grows and changes over time, just like everyone does. You can't love the same way at 65 that you did at 25. The logistics just aren't the same.

Love isn't about how you look, or sex, or house payments, or gifts, or family. It's a bond that weathers many many storms.

My parents have been married for almost 30 years now and they still hold hands and cuddle. My mom is 50 and my Dad is 72. He's terminally ill, but she still stays with him, holding him and caring for him. THAT'S love. It ends badly when you put your own needs ahead of everything else. Love ends badly when you aren't truely in love.

December 11, 2000
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Love is constantly changing, and it weathers storms. It is delicious, delightful, can make you dance on top of water, it is also the most painful experience you can endour. It comes in various degrees, shapes and experiences, some long and short. I am beginning to believe that if we just experience it, not try to controll it, hold on to it, expect it, perhaps be more like a dog, it could be more enjoyable.

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