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LOVE IS?
November 15, 2001
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LOVE IS?

IT SEEMS THAT LOVE ISN’T WHAT IT USE TO BE. IT SEEMS THAT EVERYONE IS OUT FOR THEMSELVES AND THAT THE SIGNIFICANT OTHER IS ALWAYS LAST NO MATTER WHAT. I AM FOR THE OLD FASHIONED ROMANTIC KIND. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

November 15, 2001
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Definately the old fashioned romantic kind 🙂 even though I am sometimes frowned upon for being so by peers....I am 21....

Becca xx

November 16, 2001
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Well mine is 35 and when we are getting along it gets pretty sweaty also but a little sway from a routine that it has become would be nice and there is a little kink in there too, but the romance sure does keep things kindled. BlondieNYC i know i am older than yourself i have a birthday next month 12/15 and it is the big 50. But my batteries is still going, going and going.

November 16, 2001
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I am new to this counseling but am it hopes to maybe make a few friends and get a little advise.

What about passion?? I read a lot and that may be my problem for expecting to much from my man. But when he kisses me I feel like he could be kissing his sister. He is not the most romantic person in the world that's for sure. But for me I need to be needed. I wish there were times when he just couldn't keep his hands off me. And I am not talking about grabbing my rear or breasts. Does any one know what I mean???

November 16, 2001
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Blondie too funny. Thanks. Yeah my husband pinches my nipples too and it does not turn me on and tells me that i have nice jugs and a wonderful pu__y. Whatever dude, that is not what i want to hear. Tell me how beautiful i am and how you couldn't picture every being without me. They just don't get it.

November 19, 2001
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i so agree men have a one track mind and they think that is the only cure for it oh well, a hug and it will be allright is alot better.

November 19, 2001
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You guys, come on. The grass is always greener on top of the septic tank, as my Mom always says.

You can get a great, nice, sensitive guy who is romantic but is totally passive about everything that exists in the entire world that you feel like you have to pick out his clothes for him!

November 19, 2001
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Still have to go with the Sweet Potatoe Queens Book of Love, ya need five men. The one that pays the bills, the one that can fix things, the one that can hear ya, the one that is great in bed, and the one that knows how to play. But for some strange reason, we think we can get it all in one guy, go figure! I don't think he exists. Then when we have one, that has at least one of those qualities, that we choose, we rip him to shreads for what he is lacking vs celebrating the fact that he has at least one quality, and again, we are the ones that let him in our life.

November 19, 2001
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Molly you go girl

November 19, 2001
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mind if i join? well, at least you girls have something to be squeezed (know what i mean? not all girls are gifted). anyway, i agree with stressed1. even if im almost at the end of my HOPES i'm still waiting for that one guy who can embrace and accept what others cant. i dont want to end up believing my preconcieved opinions about men.

November 20, 2001
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I don't believe that there are any perfect men out there, haven't found one yet who knows how to treat a lady

November 21, 2001
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they ought to try loving their own kind, maybe then theyll come to realize how bad they are

November 21, 2001
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ahhhhh you girls made me chuckle. How i relate to the nipple tweaking it really bloody annoys me when they do that. The other day i spent the entire day cleaning, washing,ironing and cooking for my household of 1 hubby and 3 kids (if i didnt do it no one else would) and he comes home from work has his dinner then gives me a wink and tweaks me nipples and thinks that is foreplay and i should be turned on by that grrrrrrrrr ive spent the bloody day picking up after that lot and cleaning the house, the last thing on my mind is sex. All i want is a hot bath and a good book to read lol. LOVE! not sure i know anymore what that word is.

November 21, 2001
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Hi, Gang--I'm back. I agree with Molly. Maybe our expectations are just a tad high so we are always in for the big let down. What about treating ourselves the way we want men to treat us-- like the passionate, sensual, beautiful goddesses we are--do you think that the mates we choose are disappointing us because we are disappointing ourselves--treating ourselves like we deserve less than we really do and maybe projecting that to our mates?
Perfection--man, I don't know anyone--male or female that is perfect. I personally am a bitch on wheels and I fart in public, too.
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November 21, 2001
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droopydraws
i sure do agree, but then they have one track minds you know. we need to be pampered in a hot tub with lots of bubbles and rose petals floating around and a nice bottle of bubblie.

November 21, 2001
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OK, I'll come clean. (ha ha). I have a very nice, attentive, sweet, adorable husband. He does do those nice things like rubbing my shoulders while I'm typing and rubbing my feet and giving me backrubs. He doesn't go out with his friends, he does yardwork and the dishes and laundry.

But still, the man knows exactly how to jump on my last nerve and work it to shreds. He thinks that by doing nice things he builds up "relationship currency" - basically a get out of jail free card, which ain't the case. But then I get the guilt trip and feel like a mommy. So there you go - this septic tank has lots of lovely rich green grass.

November 21, 2001
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Blondie---------- there isn't one, it takes 5 to make one. Hmmmmmm that could be interesting. But how the hell would we deal with 5 of them when we can hardly handle one?

Cici--------- you think he knows how to push buttons, wait till your kids grow up........... I swear they take notes, keep them in a book, and store it up . I think all guys get that relational currency thing going. Lets see hmmmmmm if I take out the trash which isn't even full yet, then she can't say I don't do anything around here right?

November 21, 2001
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Cici? where the hell did you find your man?! i didnt know they still exist, you know... the type that can stay home and move without whining. i just want a guy i can run to anytime of the day and be with me IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH... FOR RICHER OR POORER TIL DEATH DO US PART... nah! fat chance! it only happens in the movies

November 23, 2001
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Blondie how i relate to what your saying girl. Why do men do that, they will do something like vacume the carpet and say to you "well hunni i vacumed your carpet for you " errrrr hello anyone in there its your carpet as well, you walk on it to, so you have every right to vacume it dear grrrrrrrr men! Do you girls think we expect to much from our men and if we do get what we want from them were still not happy and that confuses the shit out of them. Bless them what would we do without them hey.

November 23, 2001
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I say we keep them confused, and keep demanding. Isn't that what we are supposed to do?

November 26, 2001
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I think you are all right on!!! Maybe to much so!!! Maybe we do expect to much out of our men. But why drop our standards?? Imagine what the world would come to if women did not expect to best? When we do not get what we expect then we b-tch. We have to have something to complain about.

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