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Love fleeing
October 2, 2000
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Hi everyone,

I was just wondering if anyone else had gone through this. I need some guidance to make me feel better.

My boyfriend has decided to start his Ph.D. program 3,000 miles away. We do love each other very much and have so for a year and a half now. He has always wanted to go out west and says his will is stronger than he is and he'll miss me.....but it's what he just HAS to do. Even if it means giving up the relationship.

I'm just having a problem coping with the fact that he could give up a love just to be in a different part of the country. We want to stay together until then (2 yrs from now) but I'm 23 and it feels like I'm investing time and energy into a relationship that is just going to die. Though, we decided that it would be stupid to break up now for something that's not happening until two years from now(we both assume we'll still be together). We still love each other so much. I just don't know how to feel about this whole situation.

I greatly appreciate any advice anyone could give. Thanks...hugs

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