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~love charlie~X
January 3, 2006
8:38 am
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Dear all,

I wanted to say goodbye to you all.

I hate good-byes, so this isn't easy for me....

I want to thank you all.......for getting me through 2005, and for setting alot of my past free....

I would not be here, if not for you guys.

For all your support, wisdom and humour which has literally kept me alive....I can never thank you enough, or show you just what that has meant to me, what YOU have meant to me...

I need to take a step back now, and try to make it on my own.

As part of my obsessive behaviour, I need to focus now on my present life.

I will NEVER forget you guys ~ the best thing to happen to me in years.

With your honesty and your hugs, and words....I have learned who I really am.

Thank you from my heart and soul........

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE HERE, AND TO THE SITE CO-ORDINATOR FOR CREATING THIS HAVEN...

I wish all of you well, with your lives. Cherish all you can. Know how special you are, as I will endeavour to know myself..

A special thanks, (in no particular order), to.........

Db,

D-dog,

Camer,

Bonita,

orangeboy,

Rasputin,

sewunique,

addictswife,

tracylyln,

mamac,

gayle

Lass

lolli

woundedspirit,

coda-mom,

angel4U,

lostintheinsanity,

lostinkfo,

free,

2Bstrong,

Hurts,

Aces,

Kc30,

Bigheart,

Randomwomen2,

paddycake,

happyheart,

onmyway,

trueintuition,

feelingused,

Smanthine,

angel1,

readyforachange,

lavendarblue,

jamaicanwife,

exoticflower,

Ren'ai,

artist2,

the everglow,

peacesoul,

chickyfighter,

lilacwine,

RLH,

Sega

whitedove,

Sole,

sadgirl,

sdesigns,

cici,

Gullyfoyle,

suckernomore,

anam cara

kathygy

gettingthere

TC

mj

plz

star

alicat

delicate

ds78

bel

philmore

*If I missed anyone out, know it's just an oversight!

~love, kisses and hugs, charlie-girl~XXXXXX

January 3, 2006
8:46 am
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...continued!

*Taj

*revelation

*kasie

*classof

January 3, 2006
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Good luck charlie and Happy New Year.

January 3, 2006
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Charlie:

It's sad to see you go, but so very good to see where you have come from when you started to where you are now. NO suidice attempts ok. You are a special, brilliant, vibrant woman who should be on her feet and enjoying her life. Always look forward but don't forget where you came from. AND you know we are always just a few keystrokes away. 🙂

January 3, 2006
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hi charlie, i will truly miss you thankyou also for being there for me,i know were youre coming from as my obsessive behaviour too needs to be re-acessed think i spelt that right,anyway dont forget me will you ,and i will be here if you need me .........gettingthere x

January 3, 2006
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Hi Charlie, Thanks so much. I will miss you and I hope you come back. I for one, enjoyed talking to you Charlie. I hope everything continues to go well for you. with love, TAJ PS I think you will come back to us. Thanks for being there for all of us.

January 3, 2006
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((((((Charlie))))))

The best of luck to you!

January 3, 2006
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Charlie-girl! Good Luck! It has been an honor to know you and I am thankful for you! Happy New Year and the best for you in 2006! (((HUGS))) Gayle

January 3, 2006
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(((Charlie)))))))) awwwwwwwwww, i am going to miss you, and i do hope you come back someday and let me know how life is going for you.

Thanks for all the of your postings and i wish you a wonderful 2006 and
hope to see you posting someday down the road.

Much love & support....Camer

January 3, 2006
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Dear Charlie: I am sad to hear you are leaving but felt happy to feel how strong you are feeling. Its wonderful you have the courage to move on w/ your life. I hope there are nothing but good things in store for you. ((((Charllie)))) Love, SD

January 3, 2006
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((((charlie)))),

I wish you the best of luck on your journey to having the happy life that you so deserve to have.

Your most recent posts have touched me personally as I can relate so well to your new found "insight" and I want you to know that you will be in my thougts.

If ever I can be of any help to you as a friend, to support and encourage you in any way....just let me know and I will be just a keystroke away.

Take it one day a time my friend, and you will do just fine.

We'll miss you.

Take care,
Lolli

January 3, 2006
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Hi Charlie, be well, be strong and good luck. Have a happy 2006. Regards, Notsure.

January 3, 2006
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{{{{CHARLIE}}}}

check back in a few and i hope to be doing what you are!!!

Lots of love, hugs and prayers!!!!!

Kasie

January 3, 2006
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Be Brave, Sweet Charlie!! Oh so Proud and Happy for YOU. Remember to pray.

LL

January 3, 2006
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Dear Charlie,
Although we never spoke much I have seen you on here and I am sad your leaving but happy that you are stronger and healthier and know what you need to do for you.

Best of Luck in 2006 and continue to take care of YOU....

Always
Bel

January 3, 2006
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Charlie, your departure will definitely leave a "hole" in the heart of this message board. You have been such an inspiration to me at times when I was at my lowest.

I will pray for you as you leap forward into 2006, that you would spread your wings and fly with the eagles, my friend! You will be sorely missed, but I hope you will feel like you can stop in occassionally to say hello!

Love and hugs to you, sweet girl!

plz~

January 3, 2006
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(((Charlie)))

I will miss you so much on the board, in the coffee shop. I always enjoyed reading your posts and felt related to them. I pray for your blessings in your healing journey and will continue to hold you in my prayers.

I hope you will drop by to say hi once in a while.

(((Hugs & Prayers)))

January 4, 2006
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charlie-girl!! (sob, sniffle, sob)

I'm gonna miss you sooooo much!!! Waaaaaa, waaaaaaa, waaaaaaaaa (((((((hugs))))))))

Honey, if you feel you must step back from the site, then you must follow your gut instincts.

But, whenever you tire of your solitude, you are more than welcome to drop by on La Isla Bonita for some margaritas, a piña colada, a "spot of tea" [said verry Britishly]or even if all you want is a hug and some company. 😉

Solitude is all very well and good but I am reminded of that famous quote by John Donne"

All mankind is of one author, and is one volume; when one man dies, one chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language; and every chapter must be so translated...As therefore the bell that rings to a sermon, calls not upon the preacher only, but upon the congregation to come: so this bell calls us all: but how much more me, who am brought so near the door by this sickness....No man is an island, entire of itself...any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind; and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee."
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This famous meditation of Donne's puts forth two essential ideas which are representative of the Renaissance era in which it was written:

1. No man is an island, entire of itself...The idea that people are not isolated from one another, but that mankind is interconnected;

and

2. Never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee... The vivid awareness of mortality that seems a natural outgrowth of a time when death was the constant companion of life.

Donne brings these two themes together to affirm that any one man's death diminishes all of mankind, since all mankind is connected;

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Soooo, keep healthy, stay in therapy or get thee back to therapy (lol) take your anti-depressants, stay in touch with your friends both in the real world and the cyber-world. But above all, hon, no more suicidal thoughts ok?? Your loss could only diminish us.

You are irreplaceable.

Love you (in a good way of course - iagwoc,

bonita 😉

January 4, 2006
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http://isu.indstate.edu/ilnpro.....51/ISLAND/

italicized quote and explanation come from the above link.

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