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LOVE BLOWS
February 21, 2000
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Again, I thought I met my soulmate, someone
Ive known for years but who just recently
became available, it really seemed so good
same interest, sexual attraction etc. After
what I would consider several intimate days
of talk, laughing, etc. I get the old "your
one of my best friends your in my close circle of friends lets go back to that" I feel like such a fool and am so crushed I
can hardly function. I am very confused and of course had to do the 90 question drill, are you attracted to me? YES, doint we have fun and laugh and BLAUGH BLAUGH BLAUGH? YES.
I just cant help thinking there was some
technical knockout. So here I sit (barely)
writing to strangers obsessing and trying to get closure and in the meantime I feel as if I died. Oh did I mention this was a lesbian
thing.

February 21, 2000
4:01 pm
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KAB,

You're not the first gay women who's been in this predicament…OUCH!

However, I can say, from knowing several people such as yourself, they have all said months later, "Boy am I glad that didn't happen!".

Close friends, as strange as it seems, are usually a longer lasting and more reliable relationship.

It hurts real bad now, as I can hear from your story, but if she's not ready to plunge with both feet, you've found yourself in a the right spot…not in a relationship.

If you're both not 100% ready to do something like this, it can be a sticky hurtful mess.

Take comfort in having her as a friend….

I sure hope this helps?

Keep in touch.

SC

February 22, 2000
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to sc you were my only reply
i should have used another header. thank you so much your words really make sence.

February 22, 2000
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to sc you were my only reply
i should have used another header. thank you so much your words really make sence.

February 22, 2000
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Its funny that you wrote "love blows". It doesn't always "blow", thats only when you get hurt. If you go back and think about those first couple days with her, I bet it makes you all warm a fuzzy inside. The way I see it, its better to have thoughs couple of days then none at all. You'll find your person. I bet in the long run its good you didn't end up with her. It seems to me you have more to give, you have to wait for that person that wants to take it and cherish it. Good Luck!

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