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Love at first sight... acj
February 24, 2004
10:36 am
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Hey Everyone! I've really missed you all. Life is good. Still haven't found my house, yet. Found out that Florida gives grants to low- to mid-income families. Figured I'd give it a shot for me and my daughter! It will prolong the process, though. Can't be any more frustrating than searching for a house currently is anyway!!

Okay, I have a question... Does anyone believe in love at first sight? I met this guy. We just started talking and found out that we have SOOO much in common... There are many other things that make me feel like he and I have a REAL connection. It's like he's my best friend, with a twist of attraction. I'm a very logical person and never believed in love-at-first-sight. Does anyone have any evidence that this exists?

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Hope everyone is doing VERY well!!!

(((((((((hugs)))))))))

acj

February 24, 2004
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Hi acj - sounds like you're moving forward with your new plans - good luck with the house hunting.

Well, it might not be "love", but it sounds like there's an attraction there -- I'd proceed with caution, and then see what develops.

I just read sfb's thread about "charmers", so I'd take it slow and learn more about this person. That's my rational side, but I know the feeling. It was like that when I first met my husband at a party.

He had a mustache at the time, so I just walked right up to him and said, "Hi, I've never kissed anyone with a mustache before."...then I just kissed him! Well, the rest is history, which you've been reading about on my other threads!

Hope there is some sunshine in your day today!

February 24, 2004
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I believe in love at first sight, definitely. But is it the love that can last a lifetime - ah, that is a different question.

February 24, 2004
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Hey, where is that thread "Charmers"? I can't find it... I definitely want to read it if SFB wrote it.. She usually has some good stuff... 🙂

I guess what is making this different is that the physical attraction wasn't what really caught my eye with him. He has a wonderful mind and seems to have his head screwed on straight. Instead of looking at him like a piece of meat, I see him as a person. Weird for me... 🙂

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February 24, 2004
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It's dated 2-23, and the title is How you Become Prey to a Charmer/Abuser Personality. Hope you find some good nuggets of info!

February 24, 2004
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Thanks a lot!!! I appreciate it!! Gonna go read it now.. 🙂

February 24, 2004
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Wow, that was really good!! I printed it out and I'm going to carry it with me and SLOW things down. Heaven knows I don't need another situation like the one I just got out of!!

Thanks!!!!!

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February 24, 2004
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I thought it was pretty interesting too. Good luck with your new situations, and all that is ahead of you! Set your goals high - and put "due dates" on them - that's the only way they'll get done! Take care!

February 25, 2004
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Any one else have any opinions on love at first sight?

February 26, 2004
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I believe in lust at first sight ACJ, but not love. Remember what "they" say,,,once the lust wears off, there had better be something there to takes its place. Unless some good sex is all you're looking for, of course!! It is fun in the beginning though, isn't it?

February 26, 2004
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Well,in some cases it can be true,but then will it last?The reason i ask this question is because alot of time in situation like this we are so excited about this love that we don't think about studying each others innerself.(this is one mistake that has happened to me but ofcourse it doesn't mean that it will happen to you)you can be madly in love with each other just to find out later that you are not compatible(you don't have the same interest ,the same lifestyle etc...)unless you are both ready to compromise but to which extent...!
Anyway acj i've tried to share my point of view to you, i hope that it can work out good for you,try not to do my mistake..ha..ha..ha..I wish you luck!

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