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Love Addict...etc.
March 4, 2006
1:18 am
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lovesick
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OMG....why can't i stop thinking of this man i have a relationship with..its so annoying and is taking most of my enrgey or has taken all my energy.... i am geting better everyday. But this is a never ending cycle. if its not him its another man. usually it happens with men who have some type of obbsseive compulsion and i continue to get myself into a relationship and induce all symptoms of a co-dependent.
Im am mentally tired of going through the same BS.

March 4, 2006
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lovesick,

My heart goes out to you. But there's reason to be hopeful. For one, you say you're getting better. That's good. For two, you're showing the natural nurturing that women, bless their hearts, do so very well. The trick is to not let it become a trap to you, which it's becoming unfortunately.

We're made for relationships, for healthy relationships. It sounds like this man isn't healthy for you. Is that right? If so, perhaps you should get him totally out of your system. Refuse to think about him, refuse to see him, purge him out of your system.

To avoid replacing him with another like person, perhaps you could find social activities to do with groups of people, and not get too deeply involved with any particular person until you feel ready to try a one-on-one relationship again.

Would it work to take up a hobby -- and throw yourself completely into it? Would this help you funnel your energy into more useful things?

The best to you. You deserve it.

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