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lost trust in life and relations.. kindly support..
December 4, 2012
7:26 am
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I'm a reserved kind of a guy. Don't mix with people easily. not even very close to my family. Not having close friends. And i met a girl. The first person i got close with. we were in a relationship from last one year. we used to meet daily. couldn't even spend 4-5 days without seeing and hugging each other. For me we were made for each other and she also used to feel the same. And our friends also used to say that your relationship is an example. This is what true love is called. We talked to our parents and they also said we don't have a big problem if you both really love each other so badly. we completed one year on 23rd Sep. and we were very happy. i told her that if God would separate us, i'll kill myself. she said the same. next day she went to a wedding. and i was also busy with my office chores. we couldn't contact the whole day. in the evening we had a small fight due to a little issue. I thought we'll sort it out in the morning and i slept. in morning i called her and she said she can't carry on with me, I'm breaking up. I tried my best to make her well again but all in vein. I said that it was a petty issue and wasn't worth breaking the relationship which was so solid. She said that it was just an excuse, i want to concentrate on my studies. Then one day she said parents are not ready. No one knows what happened at the fu***ng wedding. Now I'm in bad depression. She's only thing on my mind 24x7. I feel like killing me. It might not be that difficult if relationship would has been ended with time but it ended in one day only. 2 months are passed, I've tried several times to move on but again at evening everything goes low. Her friends tell that she's very fine. She doesn't feel any sorrow. once i used to say that she"s the best human being I've ever met. now I don't know what to say. But I feel I'll be dead. Cry every night. Taking excessive alcohol. Please say something which can save me.

January 4, 2013
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You are the most capable person who can help yourself well. If you have chosen to live that way then your life would really become miserable as expected but if you decide to change a different path and move on peacefully then you can achieve a brighter future ahead of you. The solution is in your hands, all you have to do is to make the right choice. There is no breakup that isn't painful but what's good about it is that in the end you get to realize your own mistakes and of course you learned from it. It's part of human experience and that is the best teacher. JUST MOVE ON AND BE HAPPY okay?


Don't waste your precious time being depressed or anything. You might not be aware of this but you can actually do a lot of worthy things if you want to, you just have to step out from the box that you're currently in. You won't lose anything if you date again and meet other people. Losing in a battle is far away better than not fighting at all.


Wishing you well.

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