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September 4, 2007
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suealthom
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September 4, 2007
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i have been married for 37 yrs to this guy,I thought he loved me.Now he doesnt want any connection to me.He believe that or he wanted to protect the secret which he has told me,trying to make me that I am bipolar personality,and so forth.I went to see a pshychiatist and his assessment was I am perfefectaley normal person and the husband abused me in severals ways created a high anxiety.This man is &0 yrs old and I dont knw what is his purpose in life now.We were talking about the retired life and now he changes his mind wants to be alone.I am completely lost and I cannot believe what is doing now.we live in two separate states for the Job.now I am retired and went to be with him in the state he lives.By surprise he went court and got restrain order ti kick me out of my own house.I was shocked.He uses some old tapes of my conversation to the judge and also he lied that I need to go through treatment.I have no clue what are his plans other than i assume.what shall I do.I know some of the answers but I am not going to give up on our life together.I think he is crazy like his brother and sister who has psychosis and they both are on Lithium.

September 4, 2007
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"I know some of the answers but I am not going to give up on our life together"

Suealthom, is it that you are lost or is it you and your man lost together?
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September 5, 2007
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Is that what together is? Obviously, living apart was his thing, now that you are "together", us uh, not working. You are too good for that.

September 7, 2007
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No we are not living together.He wants to live alone/being alone for 7 hrs i suppose he is used to.since he is 70 may be he doesnt want any close relationship with his wife.I am not sure what he wants.

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