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Lossing everything even myself
October 9, 2004
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Well I don't really know what to say. I found out today that I pushed myself on a friend at a party several months ago, and done some very bad things. I'm not a drinker, I use to be but that was years ago. But evedently I done some stuff that I would never do if I hadn't drank that night. It was the first time I've really drank in about 4 years, and the last time I've done it since. Turns out I'm a very bad person. Now I've lost my girlfriend which is all that matters to me in the world. I'm not going to do anything stupid. I'm hoping that in time she'll be able to see me as the person she fell in love with and give me a second chance. Anyone have recommendations on who I would need to talk to about why I done what I did.

October 9, 2004
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nope

October 9, 2004
5:21 pm
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Hey Blight,

Keep posting here. It helps a LOT. Here, you are anonymous and you can freely speak your mind. The people here are not judgemental, they are caring, compassionate, they offer lots of excellent advice and insight. This is a great site. It has helped me make it through my situation, and helped me be strong.

If you have insurance, or if you can afford to, you can also go seek counseling. Another thing that helps is Codendents Anonymous. You can look it up online and find out if there are meetings in your area.

Good luck, and keep posting!

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October 9, 2004
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It's just i don;t know what to do. I pushed the love of my life away. I had planned on asking her to marry me in the next few weeks. Now she can only look at me like I'm a monster. I know that she could never give me a chance after this. I want to stay friends with her becuase she's the best person I've ever meet in my life. However the friendship would only hurt me, and I know when she finds someone else it would kill me.

October 10, 2004
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looks like this drinking deal may be a wake up call for you. Tell her how sorry you were for doing this, and you can't blame the booze for what you did. Booze does make you more vulnarable and I am not sure how much you drank. Now is the time that you have to prove to her that you love her and did make this mistake, I wish you luck, cuz she probably feels alot of trust was broken. Try to talk with her.
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October 16, 2004
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Iam currently in a relationship with a man that i love for the past six years but we are both abusive to each other me physical and him verbal and its getting worse to the point one of us may really hurt on another ,i would like to save the relationship because i do love him and besides that when its good its great who can help me?

October 17, 2004
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hall, welcome, first I think you should work on why you physically abuse him...and him work on why he verbally abuses you, you both probably have a vicious cirle going on with these 2 things. Have you ever tried to get counseling on this??? In my opinion, its just not right to do either, physical or verbal abuse, they both hurt.
Good luck and keep venting.

October 17, 2004
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hi hall,
welcome! I was also in a relationship similiar to that, many times I was close to striking him or lashing. You say when its good its great, I've said that myself, its still true! But how is it when its bad, and how long? Does the good outweigh the bad? I made a list, I saw someone recommend it on another thread, the good list and the bad list. The good list had a couple entries. The bad, well lets just say I was just getting started and I had already filled out a page and a half! It really put things into perspective for me. Have u tried that?
magga

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