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loosing my wife
May 3, 2001
10:00 am
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bob1234
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I need to talk, I have been married for 18 years 2 kids love my wife more then anything. I guess things were not as good as I though and she has feel in love with another man. She says she also loves me too but not in the same way. I know they have been to bed together, she told me. I want to forgive and try to forget and do what ever it takes to keep this marraige together. But how?

May 3, 2001
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Adultry is a hard one to get over, she needs to commit to end all communications immediately. You both need to get into marriage counseling, the issues that led her to be unfaithful, as well as your anger need to be addressed. Good luck.

May 3, 2001
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Thanks Molly,
I never got married to endup like this. I am a great father but I could have been a better husband. I let my work and finacial issues get between us to often. Never the less I adore my wife and we have had many many good times. I thought we had a very normal life. And I would of never know this would happen. She re-met an old high school flame on the internet after 20+ years. They were very good friends. He is married with 2 children also. I am deepley hurt and confused over this. I want to go to counseling but as of now she has not agreed or even decided if she still wants me in her life even though she says she loves me. I feel the only thing stopping her is the hurt she will do to the children by a seperation.

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