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Long term relationshps?
May 24, 2007
5:32 pm
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I gobled up the article about the course of committed relationships. I certainly can remember being there a couple of times. The second one I married and stayed in it for close to 24 years. I have just taken a "break" from a relationship that started as a secretive sexual one. Now I want more committment, get out a bit and start meeting the world. Unfrotunately he does not want to do that for various reasons, insisiting that he is still in love with his incomaptibel last relationship which lasted three years. She apparently coerced him into getting engaged (he has a fear of committment) and it went downhill from there. If it ever was uphill, from my understanding it was a battle. But he loves her even given the grave incompatibility. So here I am, having to make a decision, purely sexual realtionship or let him go. I know one I want him to sweat for two weeks (he loves his sex.) But unless he has a complete change around he certainly will not be getting it from this girl.

May 25, 2007
8:29 am
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I think it sounds like you are manipulating him...much like his ex may have done.

You know he likes his sex...so you are withholding for two weeks in hope of what? Getting what you want from him? more than just sex?

I think it will end just as badly as his last relationship.

You can't force anyone to change...and withholding sex will only make him bitter towards you in the end.

SURE, he may come back begging and pleading and promising to give you whatever it is you want...BUT...it's not cuz he wants to, it's just cuz he wants to get laid.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I don't want you ending up miserable and with someone that is with you just for sex...and making empty promises...been there, done that. And it hurts.

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