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lonely, but too depressed to be around people
July 28, 2009
11:59 pm


Hello. I'm sorry you are feeling down as well. Work can be a good distraction, but sometimes if you are not careful, you can bury your problems in it and they come cropping up when you don't want them to. But in a balanced way, work can be the healthiest thing we can do for ourselves.

No, the vacation thing is really not an option. I simply cannot get the time off from work. I don't even really have weekends off, or consecutive days for many times.

Right now, I want to just get out of this pain. I want to meet people, but right now I just want to feel better... or I won't be capable of making friends. It's hard when you are so emotional. It's a vicious cycle. I started off optimistic and okay, but my efforts didn't work out, then I got depressed, angry, and it makes it hard to relate to people when you feel like no one gives a shit about you and the rest of the world is enjoying each other and life. It like I just feel "What is so damn special about them? Why do they deserve to have friends and be loved? Some of them aren't even nice people."

I'm just not doing very well today. Feeling extremely low. It was kind of you to write. I really appreciate it.


July 29, 2009
12:10 am

Bitsy- Oh sorry I misread your post completely!!!

You actually have the kind of friend I really wish I had, and that I miss having... someone you can just talk to no matter what you are doing, chores, shopping, whatever... it is the company that is important- not the activity. But it is nice that you support your friend by helping her out.

I am relieved you are happy and your friend is a comfort to you.


July 29, 2009
12:11 am

Hi Chelonia. Thank you.

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