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LL &GG, I'm over here....
October 26, 2006
4:28 pm
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mich, I do not want LL over you, I love you both...I don't even know what to spill...I can't even cry...I am a waste of time...

I feel awful now that I even got on the computer today, because now I know that I hurt your feelings and that was never my intention...omg, mich, we need help...

I wish I could take it all back, delete, and crawl in some hole....
I AM SORRY...

Mich, don't leave me please...just give me some time...I need to think, but can't even do that...I will check in after dinner tonight, okay...please, please don't let me hurt you...love ya gf...

October 26, 2006
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girls you are not going to get anywhere trying to blame yourselves for something. You guys know this. Scared you were not being selfish last night and GG you shouldnt hold things in. I am no professional but I see this conversation heading in a not good direction for either one of you. You guys have been doing so good and I hate to see you either one hurting so take a deep breath and each realize there is no one to blame for this situation. Shit happens, it will be ok.

October 26, 2006
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thumkin,

That is what I am talking about...You respond when you feel you should. Thanks for listening to me.

GG,

KNOCK IT OFF. That was NOT said in a snotty tone. I love you, I care about you, and I am very worried about you. It isn't like I am jealous if you wanted LL. C'mon. I was just trying to give you that chance. Sometimes we want someone in particular. That is ok. I have some serious abandonment issues, and I can't handle knowing that you aren't gonna be around here. We need each other. I am not going to leave you. I told you when you are ready to talk I will be here. I will listen, and still love you unconditionally. The fact that your situation has been going on for a long time is irrelevant. So has mine, it just all came out last night. The length of time that it has been a problem doesn't change the urgency when it hits. I needed you guys last night, and you were there for me. I just feel bad that we might have slighted you. You didn't hurt my feelings today, I just feel bad. I feel like I wasn't there for you when you needed me. For that I apologize. Please believe that. Crawling in a whole would do you no justice either. It isn't going to get better there, alone. Come here and chat. You have loved me, and held me and it has meant the world to me. We are both codependent people who want the best for each other. I think we canachieve that, but we have to do it together. Remember, TOGETHER. We had this conversation. If you talk and feel stupid, that is fine, just keep talking. You are still going to have us. We love you and we care about you. What we have with a lot of people here is amazing, but what you, myself and LL have is sweet. A first for me, and I am scared of losing that. Please don't leave us. We need you, and whether you want to believe it or not, right now, you need us. More than ever. Just like I told thumkin today on her thread, and I have said it to you before. Pain is pain. The source is irrelevant. Just because my problems might seem bigger, or LL's, that doesn't mean that it is. And it certainly doesn't make our pain any worse. Who cares how you sound telling us what is going on. Go back through our last three threads...seriously, tell me I don't sound like the biggest, whiney, crybaby that you have ever heard in your life. About what, NOTHING. I repeat myself, and really, GG, my problems are nothing compared to a lot of the peoples on this site. But my pain is still very real. And so is yours. So is thumkins. Please keep talking...Don't say you are not worth my time. I am closer to you than I am to my mother, my sister or any other female in my family. You are worth eery second that goes into this relationship. I will always be here for you..and so will LL. I am sure of it. I love you, don't do this to us, BUT, most of all don't do it to YOU.

Scared

October 26, 2006
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GG,

Please talk to me and let me know that you are ok. Please.

October 26, 2006
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OK GIRLS_

I am starting a NEW thread...you guys can find it I am sure

October 26, 2006
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(((GG)))

I haven't read the entire thread, but I am going to scream on you.

YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!! Just as I've said to Mich and Army, you are precious!!

I couldn't have gotten through last night without you. I didn't help Mich alone. I NEEDED you there. It wouldn't have happened without you. You are a VITAL part of this site, and now my life. You are wonderful.

You are not unworthy of us. Pain is pain. We are not playing the "who has more pain" game. We each have pain. How we got here and what we are going through isn't the goal. Healing is. The journey is.

You are a part of my journey and leaving me, LL, Mich, Jenni, Army, and everyone else does not serve a purpose. Don't isolate yourself. Stay. Please don't go.

Love,
Cyndra

October 26, 2006
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Thanks Cyndra,

Did you find my new thread?

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