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1:09 am
September 24, 2010
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I know better, but it has taken 4 yours. He gets worse. I use to cry but the true blue is coming out. " you will always be last". Is it possible that men treat me like this and not others?
1:14 am
September 29, 2010
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Some men treat all women like this sweetheart. I am so sorry that your going thru this though. (((Ijs))))
1:15 am
September 24, 2010
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Thank you.
1:18 am
September 29, 2010
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I am glad I checked in im about ready for bed but I hate to see posts unread. Please continue to write sweetheart. YOu will get a lot more replies in the morning. I have to be up in a few hours so goodnight hunny.
1:21 am
September 24, 2010
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Thank you so much!
1:22 am
September 27, 2010
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do you put yourself last usually? because i used to a lot, and then recently i've been meeting people who are much more healthy and worthy of my affection as i start putting myself in a better position.
i am a guy, and can say that not all guys will put a girl last. i know i don't.
1:27 am
September 24, 2010
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In a relationship yes I do put myself last. I won't do what I want to do because I really want to be with him.
1:29 am
September 24, 2010
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I told him that I didn't want to one day wake up and not love him anymore. I have already done that to 2 others. I begged him not to do this. I don't want to hurt anybody else. I don't want to fall out of love with anybody else. I don't understand when they start loving me that I don't love them anymore.
1:33 am
September 27, 2010
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from my point of view, being a guy that is... a girl has to do bad bad things to make me not like her. infidelity, bad choices, put her/me/our relationship in harms way.
do what you want in relationships, not always, but enough of the time to consider it at least halfway your relationship. without conflict and compromise the world would be so desolate.
for example, i used to hate bowling, hate hate hate it... then one of my girlfriends asked me to go, i argued with her a bit about it and she convinced me to go, now it's something i enjoy doing because some little argument over it changed my mind.
you shouldn't have to put yourself last in a relationship to make it work. there should be a compromise between the two.
1:39 am
September 24, 2010
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I don't think he cares when I don't. He is very much at peace when I don't answer him or if I do go on about my merry way. But when I do go, he feels excited. It is always games.
1:40 am
September 27, 2010
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is 'love' something that scares you maybe? perhaps you are afraid of being close to another person on that type of level?
i know i am. i do similar things, i get all excited and in love chasing the girl and when i get her i'm thinking to myself... "Hmmm, what now? I wasn't expecting this to happen."
1:44 am
September 24, 2010
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Maybe this is him? He has faught loving me from day one. My question is how much more should I take? When I'm throught I'm through. If you stay in the say relationship and allow them to keep mistreating you, will it ever change, or should you just walk away never allowing them back in.
1:47 am
September 24, 2010
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Just maybe we are both afraid to love.
1:48 am
September 27, 2010
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it does sound like a lot of games... not fun ones either. more of control games.
does this somewhat resemble the relationship??
him: i dont love you
you: i love you
him i dont love you
you: i still love you
him: maybe i love you
you: i love you, but don't think you'll love me ever
him: i love you
you: i am over waiting, it doesn't matter anymore.
sorry if that's confusing.
1:53 am
September 27, 2010
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him: i dont love you
you: i love you
him: i dont love you
you: i still love you
him: maybe i love you
you: i love you, but don't think you'll love me ever
him: i love you
you: i am over waiting, it doesn't matter anymore.
sorry i didn't space them out in the last post, maybe that makes more sense.
1:56 am
September 24, 2010
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Yes, how do you know?
2:00 am
September 27, 2010
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been there many times... i get so fed up with their behavior that even if they did change it wouldn't matter...
i know i really am not offering any advice, but when you start putting yourself first, you learn to deal with these situations better... get better at weeding out the bad seeds from the good ones.
2:03 am
September 24, 2010
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R u male or female?
2:05 am
September 27, 2010
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male.
i get into those problems all the time... my last girlfriend, for about a month i told her i loved her... i started it. then she decided she loved me after i was over the chase, i was tired of chasing her holding out my heart.. then all of a sudden she turns around with her heart out ready to give it to me, but no.. i didn't want it anymore. it was for the best. you can't be chasing someone your entire life.
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