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Little nervous for trial tommorrow--Loverbee
August 31, 2006
7:51 pm
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I hate having to go at this alone. My bf is still in NY and I have to go to criminal court tommorrow about an accident that i fled which is impossible because I was out of town the day that accident happened and my lawyer said it is an open and shut case. Still it is nerve wracking and I wish I had some family or friends or my bf that were here now but everyone is out of town. on top of that, my neck is still sore from sleepwalking the other night and although I got a massage, I am still very sore and tense. Could use some support.

August 31, 2006
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It will all go alright sweetheart. You did absolutly nothing wrong. Do you have proof that you were out of town? Like recets from a gas station or something of the sort? ((Loverbee))) Sorry you are so stressed hunny. Oh and belive me I know about the sore neck and shoulders my stars mine are as hard as a rock right now. Please let us know how it goes tomarrow I'll be thinking of you.

August 31, 2006
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yes, any court is a little nerve wracking.
you will be fine...you know you were not there, the truth will come out.
it is hard when you are in the middle of it, but make sure you have enough to cover your butt!!!

you will be fine..it is only temporary discomfort, it will be nice when it is over!!!

nvr

August 31, 2006
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yes, I have a bunch of reciepts and signed statements. However, I guess I am feeling really used because my lawyer says I may be just a pawn to try to catch her in insurance fraud or purgery. But now I am taking it out on my bf and I feel bad about that. I don't know I just can't wait for this to be over.

August 31, 2006
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I guess its a little more than that too. Recently, my mother has been in a downward spiral. She is an alcoholic and actually used my sister and I for the first time. Well probably not the first time but it was the first time that she made it this blatent. At the begining of the month she called us crying saying her cell was going to be shut off because she couldn't pay the bill. Then my sis and I pitched in and sent her the money. Then I called the phone company only to find out that she hadn't paid her bill at all and I ended up having to pay for it by just calling the phone company and doing it myself. Turns out she spent it all on booze. I am so pissed. I felt used and started thinking how much easier it would be if we could just put her in a home. I have been busting my A** to get things straightened out for her and there is always more to be done. IT sux. I hate her so much but love her at the same time and it is just so bad.

August 31, 2006
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feeling slightly better now but still pissed at my mom. dont have a clue what to do there.

August 31, 2006
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Loverbee:

I'm sorry about your mom. My suggestion would be DON"T give her any money. If she needs help then pay the bill for her, but never presume she'll take care of things herself. She just cannot. The addiction will take over and she'll spend the money.

Best to you. 🙂

September 1, 2006
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Loverbee,

I just wanted to stop in to wish you good luck today. I'm sure everything will work out fine.

As far as your Mom goes, perhaps you would consider going to Alanon? My mother was also an alcoholic (as well as my (ex) b/f) and Alanon helped me tremendously by learning how to deal with the affects of another person's drinking in a healthier way.

Take care,
Lolli

September 1, 2006
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still a felon. Just my luck. Got another court date on October 20. Such a pain in the ass but apparently they were too busy to take a look at my case which means they now have to take time to try to contact the woman and look over the case and then see me back in court. What incompetent people huh?

September 1, 2006
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sorry sweetheart that you are being put through this load of bull. You will get through this sweetheart. (((Loverbee))))

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