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Lita
January 3, 2006
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I thought I would answer you on a new thread. Unfortunately, I have no magic wand, no magic beans, no pixie dust, but.........

I can promise you this, if you stay strong and each time life knocks you down, get back up, you will ultimately end up ahead. Its not how many times you are down. It is how many times you get back up.

I am certianly here to listen. Sorry you were put through that. You have not been on here much. Maybe post a little to express your feelings and it may help you to get it out and feel better.

As for my Christmas and New years, all very good. I spent most of it with my kids, which made it very nice. My x still tries her BS here and there. But I am taking it one day at a time.

January 4, 2006
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overcome, I cant believe what just happened to me. Remember i told you i was having a long distant relationship with that guy from vegas. Then he just stopped calling me. He was suposed to be this good christian man you know, Well he calls me today and says hey how are you. oh and the reason i havent called is because i have been working. And baby i need you to send me some more pictures. I know your going what pictures. Please do not think less of me for this ok. But since it was a long distant relationship we would send pictures using our camera phones of each other nude. I now know bad mistake. but i cant begin to imagine whats going through his head asking me for more pictures. What is he crazy, an online pervert, needless to say of course i called and had my number changed today. I feel so stupid, I should of seen right through him but some how i didnt. It gave me the creeps. God knows where my pictures are gonna end up. Will i ever learn. Thats how my day has gone so far.

January 4, 2006
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Lita,

I am sorry you got burned like this.

Unfortunately, there are risks to taking nude shots of yourself - even if you are with a committed partner - bad things happen with those kinds of pictures.

Chalk it up as lesson learned and work on picking up the pieces.

I am sorry it ended like this - but glad you learned he was a sleeze NOW and not when you got to vegas or had this man to your own home!!!

and please understand that meeting a guy online is no different than meeting a guy in person - and think of how comfortable you would have been if you met a guy and he asked to have naked pictures of you. Maybe you would say yes, or maybe you would say no way - but when you are online, think "would I do this if I met him in person"...and act the same. It's easy to shed inhibitions when you meet someone online - so be careful - and use that knowledge when you are learning about someone as well - know they may not act the same in person cuz they are more comfortable being online.

Again, I am sorry you got burned - try not to stress over those pictures...if there is any indication that they may get used improperly - let him know you know what your legal rights are and that those pictures better not end up in the wrong places or lawsuits will be filed.

January 5, 2006
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Lita,

I am so sorry. All I can stress is not to get upset over this. What is done is done. He sounds like a creep and at least you know now before you decided to move out there and uproot your life.

This is a life lesson...a tough one at that. By the way, I do not think any less of you.

January 5, 2006
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alicat, overcome, Thank you for letting me talk always. And never judging me. Iam hurt over this but ill get over it. You are right it is just another lifes lesson. I dont know why i always have to learn the hard way . Well wish me luck , I guess better luck next time.

January 5, 2006
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(((Sweet Lita))))

Honey, please forgive yourself! I love just as I used to and I do not judge you.

Remember that your HP has forgiven you if you have asked him. So, I urge you not to be harsh on yourself. Just forgive yourself and do something loving to your today so that you can feel more at peace.

I hope you will feel at peace very soon!

(((Hugs & Prayers)))

January 5, 2006
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Ras, Iam so glad to here from you. I was getting worried about you i havent heard from you in a while. Are you ok ? have you been feeling allright? was your holiday good? Ok ill stop with the questions so you can catch your breath. lol

January 5, 2006
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Lita I think you will get over sooner than you think. Something like this, give yourself a few weeks or so. You will forget all about him. A lesson learned, and you know better for next time. I would wonder too about pic taken on a camera phone. I think I will not try that one, posing nude. You will be ok.

January 5, 2006
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I am glad you are feeling better honey. In fact, I posted on your other thread addressed to me yesterday but have not heard from you yet, and I was worried.

You will find that thread on yesterday's list.

January 6, 2006
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taj64, I think your right . Do not ever ever ever do the camera phone nude picture thing its a big big no no lol.I have learned my lesson.

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