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Listen Closely
December 28, 2005
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"In the middle of pance, crisis, or confusion, it can be difficult to listen to what is said and not to what you hear. Even the slightest emotional upheaval will not only cloud your vision, it will also clog your ears. When we are upset, we hear with 'fear muffs' on our ears. We hear with our broken hearts, our shattered egos, and our anger. At times like this, harmless little words take on great big meanings, and the smallest, most innocent gestures become life-threatening movements. You may feel like you are being attacked when you are actually being consoled. You may think you are being criticized when you are really being supported. If you know you are feeling upset or feeling vulnerable, ask people what they are saying before you jump to a conclusion about what they have said. Listen to what is said, not to what you hear."

~Iyanla Vanzant
Lessons for Women on the Journey to Peace

December 28, 2005
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read: panic

December 28, 2005
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lass,

That is so cool and possibly could be what is happening on many threads on this site.

Food for thought.

December 28, 2005
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lass- according to your post, then alot of us are in crisis mode and overreacting. it is food for thought.

pretty smart, girl!!

December 28, 2005
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we also bring our own life experiences to this site, and there are alot of conflicts because of this. there are some here with a history of alchohol, drugs, and such. and then there are people here asking for help because they have allowed a loved ones addiction to hurt them. and then i read threads where some have a mental challenge and ask for help and sympathy; and then on the very next post, there is someone screaming and raging and depressed over the treatment they recieved by being exposed to a person with the same mental illness
( people take offense) it's bound to happen...we've got na, aa, alanon, depressed, controllers, narcisistics, borderlines, codependents, dependents,bi-polars,the intellectuals,cutters,men, women....i'm surprised the aac hasn't had a total meltdown yet..hahah

December 28, 2005
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ok, wd, i know it's killing u to add to my list above, go for it.(i'm pretty sure i left someone out)

December 28, 2005
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trolls

December 29, 2005
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tom

December 29, 2005
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lost and found - I will agree that there is a lot of diversity on this site. Yet, for the most part we jive.

I have noticed what Lass is talking about happening to me on this site. Sometimes, I would get tunnel vision and also not be able to comprehend very well what is going on with another person who posts here.

I have my good days and my bad days.

I usually ask for clarification if I am confused though.

December 29, 2005
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Lost & Found,

You had me laughing, then laughing harder.

LL

December 30, 2005
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December 30, 2005
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overly religious
stalkers

December 30, 2005
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i meant overly religious

and then stalkers....

December 30, 2005
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women haters

December 30, 2005
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December 30, 2005
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December 30, 2005
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the overlooked and ignored....boo hoo

December 30, 2005
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damit!!!what do i have to do to get a response here? insult the shit out of somebody?

December 30, 2005
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December 31, 2005
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December 31, 2005
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December 31, 2005
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well, i am tired. played in this room all by myself as long as i could. nighty night.

December 31, 2005
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LOL you are so funny Lost! Thx for that. I needed it. Especially the last post.

LL

December 31, 2005
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lost, you are a scream!

December 31, 2005
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Lol..too funny. I feel so "labeled" now.....lol.

Snow

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