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10:18 am
September 24, 2010
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I have finally come to terms with the fact that i have a problem. I have been going from relationship to relationsip all my life. When they did not work i was destroyed , i panic and the first thing i thouht about was ending it all. Even after just 4 months with a person. I had to stop because this is all i know. I am now in therapy and am trying, any wisdom would help. I still obsess agbout her everyday but i pray!!!
11:11 am
September 27, 2010
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hi haze,
I am in the same situation and just wanted to let you know you are not alone.
b
12:25 pm
September 24, 2010
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Hi balancesekr, thanks for the support.
12:44 pm
September 24, 2010
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I think it's great you are getting help for this.
What I have learned is, if I can't be happy with myself alone, I will never be happy with someone else.
Atalose
~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~
12:27 am
September 27, 2010
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haze, have you checked out a CODA meeting? The meetings are great. You can express yourself and hear your true feelings. You can listen and learn from others who are in similiar situations.
I think it is great that after 4 months, you ended, got out of the relationship you were in because you knew something was off. That is the first stage of recovery, admitting there is a problem.
It is normal to obsess. Lately I have quieted my obsessive thoughts by forcing myself to keep my commitments and stay focused on my own life. I am trying not to be a victim and realize I am in the drivers seat!
b
2:08 am
September 29, 2010
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Hi Haze, am happy that you ae getting help. I am sure that as you work on your problems yout life will begin to make sense. perhaps you can consider calling a crisis hotline when you are really down in the dumps and thinking these kinds of thoughts. I came close to ending my life several times and boy am I glad am still here. I did use crisis hotline quite a bit. Hang in there, you are worth it and good for you for reasching out!
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