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Life really just down right, SUCKS!
November 12, 2000
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It just seems like everything is going down the drain. I've stopped hanging out the people I used to call friends, i've stared hanging out with some new friends but I still miss the old one. I think i'm just kinda afraid of change.
I can't keep a decent relationship, i always screw up everything. I don't know what my problem is but i just can't stand feeling like i'm all alone. sometimes i just wish i could get my hands on a gun and just fix/end everything.
what's wrong with me? is it normal to think like this?

November 12, 2000
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I don't know if it is normal to think/feel like that, but all I know is that i feel like that a lot too. I have been going through depression for the past 4 years, and I just started taking prozac a few weeks ago. I am kinda getting better, but what you need to do is kinda try to start over. How old are you? I am 14. Obiously I couldn't totally start over, but you have to forget all the shit that happened in the past, and just keep hoping for the future. Good luck!
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November 12, 2000
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cutie, i'm 15, i've talked to you before. It just seems like everything i've ever worked for is down the drain....

November 13, 2000
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i am having the same feeling too :(( life sucks :(((((((((((((((((( !!
i'm so dowb :(. im tired too so ill take a nap

November 13, 2000
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I am really concerned about you guest-guest. I can say that I know how all of you feel and I am 28 years old. I wish I could say keep your chin up but we all know that whoever thought of that crap should be flogged. I know that there are times when people fail us or we fail them but what matters most is that you feel your feelings. I have learned that the worst thing you can do is stifle your feelings. Don't be afraid to let them out. Cry if you need to but whatever you do don't react with violence. Violence is bad. Very bad. It is probably what made you depressed in the first place. Secondly, you need to talk to anyone that will listen. Trust me, your friends will understand if you give them a chance. The odds are they too know how you feel but were afraid to admit it.

November 13, 2000
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thanks imae.. thanks. i cried today.

November 14, 2000
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I don't wanna cry, i wanna die.....crying just makes me feel uselss like i have no control over my life

November 14, 2000
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christina,

I agree, taking your life would be the ultimate 'control' over your life. But then its all over, nothing left to control ever again. Being able to cry sometimes takes more strengh than doing someting 'strong'. Because you open yourself up, and yes you are vulnerable. But being fragile is one of the things that I love about life. It also gives the power for great beauty.

What's happening to you? You seemed so confident in your earlier posts?
Take care, Eve

November 14, 2000
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I just keep going in and out of like depression stages. My life this year has hit some really deep pot holes, and I'm trying hard to dig my way out but everytime i get almost to the top, i just fall, right back to where i started from only this time it's a new problem.

November 14, 2000
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Can't agreed better!!! Life sucks!

November 15, 2000
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You almost get to the top and fall back in with a new problem? Maybe you need to fix the overall you--your outlook and response to things rather than just fixig one problem at a time.

Bottom line is that we ARE all alone and we haave to be happy within ourselves or we will never be happy with others.

Fulfillment, contentment happiness are all from within. External things cannot MAKE us happy or KEEP us happy..

Strive for the best you...in all things

November 16, 2000
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i have problems keeping a boyfriend. and lately i've had problems talking to guys because their girlfriends think i'm after their guys when all i am is just friends with them...hope you understood that...
i dunno life is just fucked

November 21, 2000
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Christina

I totally agree with you - Life Sucks.
Sometimes the thought of ending it all is just so good, no more lonliness, no more crying or depression (I'm on Prozac as well).
There are always those people that say "look on the bright side, things will get better". What a load of crap.

November 21, 2000
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Hey guys, I hope you don't take this wrong and I'm not trying to preach but I just have to ask. Do any of you have God in your life? Or whoever is your God of choice? I do, and no matter how much life sucks on certain days I always have that faith and hope to get me through. You all sound so depressed and I wish I could reach out and help but I know I can't so all I can do is tell you what helps me. And that is my belief in God and in the knowledge that he made me so I must be good. Anyway, that's it, just my thought.

November 21, 2000
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Hello friends,

People who say "look on the bright side" are feeling good about themselves that day. They would give you the same look of sheer hatred if your positions were reversed, believe me.

All I can offer is advice that worked for me. I also suffer from depression which gets overwhelming at times and makes me not want to continue with my life. "I have no children, and cannot have them, so what reason is there for me to continue my life, since I cannot create life?" I've sought counselling which has helped enormously, more than the drugs did which made me feel not like myself.

Some books on self-esteem advise getting involved in volunteer activities. Give back to the community, and improve your self-esteem. Blah blah blah... the LAST thing in the world you want to do is go down to the local soup kitchen and start dishing out slop. What can you do?

You can give back in your own way, little ways, and slowly it helps you. Just help someone.

Like right now, you are online reading this. Click back and read through some other threads, and try to understand the stories and woes that are presented there. Scan until you find someone who speaks to you, and then write back. If no one story "speaks" to you, then don't write. Wait until you see the right one.

There are beautiful people in this world who are coping with problems that range from being dumped by a boyfriend to drug addiction to suicide to sexual abuse... the list goes on and on. None of us are alone in this, our problems are not freak occurrences. We as people are unique, but our problems are universal and conquerable.

Peace.

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