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Let Go & Let GOD!!!!
August 27, 2005
6:32 pm
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I believe that clutching tightly to person or thing or forcing my will on any given situation eliminates the possibility of my Higher Power doing anything constructive about the situation, the person or me. My controlling blocks God's power. It blocks other people's ability to grow. It stops events from happening naturally. It prevents me from enjoying people or events.

Control is delusion. It does not work. We cannot control anyone's compulsive behaviors - overeating, sexual, gambling - or any of their behaviors.

We cannot change people. Any attempts to control them are delusion as well as illusion. People will either resist our effort or redouble their efforts to prove we can't control them. Furthermore, people will punish us for making them do something they do not want to do. No amount of control will effect permanent or desirable change in another person.

The only person you can now change or ever change is yourself. The only person that it is your business to control is yourself.

Detach. Surrender and start taking care of yourself!

Let Go and Let God!!!!

~Love, RAS~

August 27, 2005
6:47 pm
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You'll never know how much I needed to read that right now! Thanks (((Ras))) for always the most inspirational posts. Surrender is such an awesome word. Thanks for the "reminder"!!!

plz

August 27, 2005
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You and me both baby doll..you and me both. Things around the EX camp have been quiet. He called to cancel his meeting with my best friends husband for that big loan he was hoping for. Told him that cars were being repossessed left and right and his grandma died. Well it appears that it was OW car that has been repossessed first. Good grief...she took him in, spends all her money on keeping him drunk and she looses her car after only two months with him. I did say he was an expensive habit to break. He's tried to get ahold of his exbusiness partner. Told her husband that he had no friends and wasn't sure who to trust anymore. Not sure what is going on over there anymore.

I got weak this am. I tried to go on a date last night with that guy from last week. My friends thought that he might be nice..etc. Dinner was a disaster. He sat there badmouthing my ex and telling me I needed to be relieved over it instead of grieving and then I had to sit through him bitching about HIS exwife. Honey, don't preach to me when you've got your own issues. Anyway, done with him completely. I tried. I'd rather be alone than have to hear bs from someone I don't even know. Poof be gone!!

Anyway back to the weak moment. I sent EX a text message in response to his phone call.."Ready to talk when you are. Alone. Just U and Me." So far nothing back...oh well. Guess that is a good thing eh?

August 27, 2005
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Thanks, Ras.

SS - I am here with you, alone as well.

Love you both -

D.

September 3, 2005
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I jusr read your message and really needed to hear that. I have been really depressed today. I feel as though I am having a nervous break down. I just want the pain to go away.

September 3, 2005
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ditto

September 4, 2005
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by doing this we let go, and let everything happen the way it should, in God's hands.......sometiems we take the pain, put it away, and whatever may happen will, no worries, no manipulation on our part, just letttig go...it is all good!!!

love camer

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