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Learning2LetGo
November 9, 2004
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What do you need me for? I mean really what do you need me for? Those words keep playing over and over in my head. They have come back to haunt me during the day and at night right before I go to bed. I couldn't believe those words came out of your mouth. How could you? I just don't understand? Maybe it's your way of saying that your letting me go. I guess? Or more like I should have know better. That's exactly what it means. Why did you have to hurt me it's too painful. I can't deal with it. So I'll do as you wish. I'll just let you go. Although we haven't actually discussed it or said those words to each other. But in my heart I will let you go little by little until there is nothing left to let go of. I will move on and protect my heart before you hurt me any further. I have too it's too painful and it's a must. For my own sanity

November 9, 2004
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Hi,
Is this a letter you wrote?

November 9, 2004
10:27 pm
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Whoever wrote this, it has touched my heart..alot of painwritten in your words, but it also sounds as if the person you are talking too, does not have a clue how you feel. Maybe it would be a good idea to let them know..there are obviously some deep feelings here for someone. Smetimes it just taks being honest and saying what is on your mind. For your own sanity...

November 9, 2004
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Sounds great, like you have come to a real conclusion. The trouble is maintaining it, am I right?

What is it about us humans - we are hurt when others do not feel the same way we do. In love, religion, opinions in general, are we trying to get everyone to think like us because we are scared of who we are and what we believe in?

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Maybe if we just got more people to believe in what we believe then what we believe will be ok, what?

Self esteem is something that should be taught in a formal setting but it cant because it comes from loving, caring parents and most of them got ripped off just like we did.

Hang in there.

November 9, 2004
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Trubldman-

wow, some great insight there....about getting others to believe what we believe. I never thought of it that way. Thanks for that. I'm writin' it down. 🙂

art angel

November 9, 2004
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I am sorry I just started typing and after I read my post I realized that I was on your dime. I hope you are ok and I know that you will be, you have taken a brave stance and the pain is terrible. I know. You are going to be happy and I pray that in Jesus name. Trying to get the obsessive thoughts out is the most trouble, I pray they leave also.

Again I am sorry for going off on your post with my rambling.

November 9, 2004
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Thanks art angel I hope my post was not harsh sounding, I did not realize what was coming off my fingertips until I read the post after I submitted it.

This sight is a great place to vent and really understand that I am not alone in my troubles. I hope you have a great night.

November 9, 2004
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No, not harsh sounding at all. Very insightful. Have a great night too!

November 9, 2004
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does anyone know who wrote the original thread? have not seen Learning2LetGo before, was it them? thx.

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