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Learning to Respect?
November 3, 2006
1:51 pm
artist 2
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We had the talk I mentioned in previous posts. Agreed to watch things until the end of the year and if were both not satisfied then, we would end it.

His same complaint is not getting enough sex, and mine is not feeling like it, even though I want to. There's got to be that base of respect.

He's gone right now out of town. So, he's not around to be reminded of all those things in my previous posts. Distance makes the heart grow fonder, so I'm already missing him. Just wait until he gets back I guess.

November 3, 2006
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Glad to hear you had a talk with him. Sounds like some important things were discussed and the idea of giving it until the end of the year seems to be as sound decision.

November 4, 2006
1:33 am

artist, do you guys have different sex drives -naturally - or what is at the root? does he want too much sex (whatever that is). lack of sexual desire can be a sign of all sorts of ailments (if there are no other deep issues damaging the relationship).
any possibility that it might be something physical?

November 7, 2006
5:07 pm
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Doubleloss... thanks. My sex drive is connected to my feelings about him and about how the relationship is going. I've had some time to get away from his annoying and unacceptable characteristics. So, I am looking forward to seeing him. However, I know that when he starts up again next week with the drinking, I'll lose respect once again.

It's not just drinking, but when he drinks, he gets sloshed. He calls me on his cell phone and his voice is slurred. It's really creepy and quite the turn off. Like a little kid... it's really disgusting. I think it's completely irresponsible. He sees no harm in having "a drink or two" with his buddies.

His sex drive is tied to his feelings for me... of being in love... there is no spiritual connection--at least not from the same source.

I'm not in menopause, so I don't think it's physical. I find myself sexually attracted to other men. The more so when I'm losing respect for him.

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