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Ladeska
August 17, 2001
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Thank you so much for your advise you are a wonderful person to talk with. I love this man I will make it work. Thank you I will keep you updated.

Monica:)

August 17, 2001
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Okay sweetheart... Sometimes I write stuff and go - Geez...hope someone makes sense out of this! (lol!) I feed the squirrels in my head fruit loops sometimes, so no telling what's going to roll out as a result!

Just understand that your radar system is there. It may give you faulty signals sometimes, which may indicate it needs repair.... But, alot of times it goes off for good reason, too. Just sit back and take one day at a time. We do what we do for good reason...we just have to find the keys to the secret garden and decipher our own code in order to get at the truth.

Put everything up on the blackboard and discount nothing. Speak it out, get it out of your head and up on the board away from you. You'd be surprised how bright you really are, or you might find some really ridiculous self talk that you need to see for what it is. Talk here, to a therapist, but get it out. It helps to be vocal, gives truth a chance to be seen. Nothing worse than the spin cycle thing upstairs - feeling more and more confused and distorted the longer it goes on.

A good scientist/investigator puts everything up on the wall and backs away from it, giving time it's due, giving perspective a chance to set in and allows for someone else to come along and examine giving a different and fresh analysis. Pick your counselors in your life well. Can't impress this enough. Nothing worse than picking poorly.

Never, ever give anyone all your trust unless they freaking earn it over time. Don't tell anyone right off the bat - all your hurts. A charmer will then adjust himself to "not do" whatever and "to do" - what impresses you. That goes for girlfriends, family - anyone that has access to your heart of hearts. A title you give someone or one they already wear in your life - doesn't necessarily mean - they should be in your inner circle.

As you grow older in life - grow wiser...speak less and less about who you are, what you think, how you feel "unless" you know for a fact over time proven - that you can trust whoever. Otherwise, you are opening yourself up for some big heartache.

Guard yourself and put yourself in a well protected castle because you are indeed a princess worth protecting. Hold your head up and walk with grace and dignity, running headlong into nothing. If a prince is a prince - time will tell. In the meantime - take everything in, consider all angles and be very discerning. What is false, counterfeit will show itself because the glitter can only sparkle...so long...before it starts to crumble. That's why so many people push you to act fast with them, they know this about themselves. It's work to put up a false facade. Charmers are innately lazy people.

When we don't consider ourselves worthy to be loved - we set the scene for major invasion of every kind. The wolves smell it and will come running for din-din. Time and patience, confidence and less talk - are your friends. What is true will go through the test of the long run.

If we need something in a hurry - we tell on ourselves. We say we are desperate, we are low in the self-esteem department and we are not wise. Just what those who prey on other people - want to see. So, off with those lights and on with the other ones that say - stop at the door, in fact - stop at the gate. I'll let you in a few steps at a time as you earn the right to be there.

Other than that, take time to see what the real foundation is made up of concerning your feelings of distrust. They may be well founded, but may not be necessarily about "him". Give him a chance. Sometimes, a rose blooms in the desert, right out of the blue for no reason at all except that we have the pleasure of being the only one present to appreciate it. Unconditinal love - is such a rose.

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