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September 22, 2006
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I need some input on a situation I am having with my boyfriend. I feel like I am losing myself in this relationship. He feels like I should drop what ever I am doing and meet his needs. Wether it is helping him in the garage or whatever. He always thinks his needs should be met right away and mine are less important. Any suggestions?

September 22, 2006
6:25 am
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balance is always good, taking time for you first and foremost, and also spending time with him.

Just don't get lost in a relationship where your needs are not met and you have no time for your friends and family.

I think a lil' balance is good, now do you take time for you???

September 22, 2006
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Well Annie his needs are more important and should always come first, right? Does that sound like a mutually beneficial, supportive relationship? Are your needs less important than his? Then how come everyone is acting like they are? I hear you say you feel you are losing yourself in this relationship...why do you think that is? It sounds like your feelings are discounted and you are only there to assist him.
I hope this can get better by standing up for yourself and voicing how you feel. Good luck.

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