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kirikiri-His breakup-lines
October 25, 2006
11:38 pm
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i'll never forget his breakup lines...he chased me, we fell in love then he found someone better i guess.
but the things that transpired during our breakup make me bubble over with laughter!

here are some lines:

"i thought you'd have the dignity to walk away"...
"can you f__________leave me alone" (now this line came in a text.then i asked him he said no, and then early next morning at 5ish, my fone rang. he said, "do you hate me?" i said no..

i loved him deeply and i guess love makes one blind --
i don't have regrets because i know i was there when he needed someone.

perhaps next time i'll be very lucky.

October 25, 2006
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Kiri,

I've got one that I can't believe he used: Thank you for showing I can trust again. I know I'll be able to love again.

I swear, he said it.

October 26, 2006
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geez, cyndra so how did you take that?
i remember when he told me those lines i have a clue until much later.

now all i do is laugh about it.

October 26, 2006
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Since he used it 12 October I've been royally pissed off. I'm getting less and less angry.

The realization that he's probably been seeing his ex-girlfriend since she proposed to him last year makes it easier for me to let him and the relationship go.

I want to wish them all the happiness they so richly deserve.

Does that make sense?

October 27, 2006
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i wished my x & his new life a million 'best wishes'...let go is the best way to heal and get over.
we deserve to be happy.
and getting there.

October 27, 2006
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Kiri,

You are SO right. We do deserve to be happy with partners who appreciate and love us. We are on the road to that destination.

On the road again!!

October 27, 2006
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do you know it is 4 years since my breakup.as I right, i am overwhelmed by this utter sense of--nothingness,emptiness that just speaks volumes about how lonely I am and how much I miss my x.
it's emotionally crippling.
and looking back, i dont know HOW i survived moments like these.
but it's best to go through these horrible moments and feel the pain of loss than to try and do something else to cover up.i guess that's why it takes me so long to recover.
i mean hell, the last time i saw the x, wow,i thought,looking great & happy & brand new.
and I'v added 40years to my face.
unthinkable but true.
so what am i going to do about it.
and the saddest thing about this whole thing is I dont have friends.everyone's so busy with their lives.
the best pals i have are all married& having children.
it's very draining&sad,but I must choose to go through the motions.
if moving on is my goal.
to me that's the only way forward--healthily.

October 27, 2006
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Here's two lines that I received via email from my estranged husband:

"I love you so much and i'm not trying to hurt your feelings. I hope you can understand and try to fly below my radar until the skies are clear. Your certainly welcome to fly as my wingman and back me up anytime."

"My boat is weighted down to the water line right now and I'm trying not to sink, so please don't add weight to my ship right now and I will love you even more"

What do you think he's really saying here?

October 27, 2006
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best to ask him straight what he means.
that could mean many things.save your energy.ask him.
if you dont want him back, forget email.

October 27, 2006
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He basically wants me to wait around for him to work through his issues. The issues are family, work and the "friendship" that didn't go his way. He knows that I'm not going to settle, so it is a round-about way of breaking up. Ever heard of suicide by Police force? That's kind of how he looks at this. He won't break it off, but he'll make it so difficult to stay married, that I'll break it off myself. It's a martyr thing and I know it. Now, I just have to gather enough strength to stop the madness and get off the ride. It's not easy, but I have to try. Thanks for your insight.

October 27, 2006
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Pleasant,

I agree you have to ask him directly. To me it seems he's being selfish. That "wingman" comment sets my teeth on edge. How dare he speak that way to his wife?

I know it hurts, but do what's best for you. Let him take care of himself.

October 27, 2006
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Kiri and Pleasant,

I bumped up the No Contact thread for you two.

Cyndra

October 28, 2006
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Mine was "I hope you know how much you are loved lets do lunch when I get back" by txt right before she sneaked off to be with her new man

November 3, 2006
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Pleasant, what in the world is he talking about? I have no clue as to what he is trying to say. Ask him to clarify his comments. It sounds like he is trying to convey something but only he knows. Very confusing.

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