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keeping a person confused is a way to hypnotize them
January 2, 2005
3:00 pm
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I read this on another thread, I am facinated by it....

I felt so mind-tripped throughout my last relationship, and in the end, he said I asked too many questions, and analyzed everything...and but....

I am not so much that way, except when things do not add up and he...the things he said versus the things he did....he said it was that I couldn't understand the difference between "Real David" and "Public David"...well, but, if the two people are so different that we have to understand the difference...**sigh**

Somehow it was all my fault that I didn't get it, but I couldn't make anything make sense.....

And I did journal and things, I have tons on notes and stuff, but what I got when I tried to talk about it was that he was too confused or couldn't remember...and then when I would say, "Such and such is happening" he would coo over me, "Now, no...I didn't do that...are you telling yourself scary stories again?"

And because he would also leave messages about how much he loved me and needed to be near me....I thought, well, maybe I am crying for no reason, maybe....

whew...I am tired, and really really glad I found this website...sorry for the babbling....

January 3, 2005
2:26 am
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Hi There, this guy is really screwed up inside and you are getting the brunt of his internal struggles and confusion - bad situation to be in girl unless you have a degree in psychiatry! This guy needs to sort out his own head before you can have a reasonable relationship with him. The messages of love-well from what I am reading, you are a major support in his life and he can't afford to let you go. Don't be too flattered, this is not hanging onto you because he loves and adores you and wants to be with you, this is hanging onto you 'cos he needs you-totally selfish reasons. Just an opinion of an outsider looking in.

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