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KEEP HIM OR LEAVE HIM
October 13, 2006
4:23 pm
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nappy
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I need some input on this matter. I have a friend that I have been trying to get close to as a person. But the problems is that he don't make any decision about anything that we do together. He always leave it up to me. He is always asking me what is we going to do. Whether it is going out to dinner or just trying to think about what activities that we can do for fun. He don't make any decision in this relationship except when it come down to sex. I understand on the weekend that he is a referee for a basketball team and sometimes that don't get over with until late at night but that is when he calls or leave a message on my phone about spending time with him. I think I am getting tired of him because I don't want to spend my weekend just sitting there looking at him from 10:00 pm until it is time to go to bed. Should I just let him go or should I see how the out come is going to be?

October 13, 2006
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Hi nappy,
How long have you known him?

October 13, 2006
5:03 pm
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Hello on my way,
I have been knowing him for awhile now going to six months. We started dating and everything and really enjoying our selves but now it just seem that the only time that he really get excited about anything now is when he is talking about sex and then he told me just the other day that he see me as being more than that but why in my heart i don't feel it.

October 16, 2006
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Well this weekend was a no contact for me. It was hard but I did it. I was sick and tired of his attitude that I didn't no what to do. I realize that I am a better person. I also realize that I have this thing with people leaving me. I guess it goes back again from my childhood when my mother died. I was holding on so tight to these mens so that they wouldn't leave me but now since I finally sit myself down and thought about what I was doing and what this man was really asking of me. Wanting me to call him all the time and only seeing him. Life is to short for all of this and I am to old to be going through this again. It will be hard to not call him but I think that I can do it.

October 16, 2006
10:33 pm
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good for you nappy....unless you're OK with having him as a sex partner only...booty call!??

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