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Kathygy
January 26, 2005
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herekitty
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I am driving him around because he had a DUI. He also procrastinated on getting his liscense back so I believe he got comfortable. He's apologized but I already made myself sick over it. is it too late?

January 26, 2005
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Is it too late for what? It's not too late to stop enabling him by driving him around. One definition of codepenency is doing for other what they should be doing for themselves. I would insist that he get his liscense back if he wants to go anywhere he'll have to drive himself.

January 26, 2005
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I agree with Kathy, until you give up doing all of this for him, he will start expecting it. He is an adult and can get a license....and he is just going to have to watch himself when he drinks...and not foolishly drive. You can put a stop to this, if you really want to make things better.

January 26, 2005
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yeah im shure a few weeks of taking the bis or walking would be enough to motivate him.

January 26, 2005
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Thanks guys!

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