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Kare-NEW thread name..Kare..NO more abuse! New Life!
March 1, 2010
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Hi Kare,,
first off, i think u need a new thread name,, (cause theres no abuse now)!

Just want 2 say congrats! i know it was very early and she is so small,, but she will survive this,, she is a SURVIVOR just like her mom 🙂 i know she is just BEAUTIFUL

I love the name u picked out..!
I know u r thinkin about her dad at this point, i think any new mother would.. but u have 2 remember,, she might not even be here if for him and his ABUSE of u when u were Pregnant and he knew u were and still put u in the hospital and locked u up and raped u!! (just remember all that and think about ur precious girl) and u DONT want him around u!

He is NOT a good person and not gonna be a good role model for her!
U can do it ,, i know u r sad for her, what do the drs say?? I hope u can take her home soon!
I was in the hospital for only 3 nights with my son but i was soooo over bein in the hospital,, (hate it)
so, im sending u a 'virtual' hugh boquet of all different colered roses and a lovely pj set (very soft organic cotton) and a soft blankie 2 bring her home in (soon)!

((((Kare))))

March 1, 2010
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PS: sorry said ur name 2x in thread,, now we gotta start a new new thread .. lol

March 1, 2010
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{{{{{{Karelovely and my precious Isabella Skye}}}}}}} GiGi is sitting at the computer bawling her eyes out. I know that I may never know you in "real life", but who knows, maybe one day I might meet a wonderful young lady who will introduce herself to me and tell me her name is Isabella and I will ask if her middle name is Skye and she will say yes, and then some crazy old woman will start crying and hugging her and telling her how precious she really is.

Sweetheart you are going to be fine. She is going to be fine. I just KNOW it. Just wait until you can hold her and then I want you to just kiss her little face all over and tell her a bunch of women love her and care for her and are her "Cyber Godmother's"

I think I can speak for several of us when I say we are all so proud of you and everything you have been through and look at the prize you recieved.

My gift to you this day are 10 pink roses, because you and baby Isabella make a perfuct dozen. I cannot tell you how happy I am for you.

Now I have to go re-do my make-up. This virtual grandparenting is hard on my mascara.

Bitsy

March 1, 2010
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She is definitely not in abuse any more. She is in the love and loving phase. How exciting is this!!!? I'm truly beside myself here. I too hope to one day run into any or both of them at some point. How lovely would that be? Auntie Jazzie, is sending lots and lots of love and a pretty little cute outfit and a cute pink bear for the new little one!!

March 2, 2010
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Hi everyone thank you so much.(Inner)thanks for starting this new thread for me.Because ur right no more abuse.When i think bk i wonder how we made it through.The doc are sayn o have to wait until her lungs to mature.And for her to gain weight and be able to feed without the tube.I just love her so much i hope she gets better.Aunty GiGi i wish that to happen and i wish i knew u and Aunty Jazzie.Im sry u cried me too tears of joy.smiles.Aunty Jazzie she is just so cute i wish u all could see her.I kinda feel like crap still n the hospital.My blood pressure is not lookin too normal.;{I LOVE U ALL...THANKS AGAIN FROM KENZIE AND ISABELLA SKYE

March 2, 2010
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Sweetie, it just makes me smile to read your posts.

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March 2, 2010
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Today i had to go in the nursery and see her.She hates to be touched but i just cant help myself.She is just so small and all the tubes just look so enormous all over her.My dad seen her earlier today,and he calls her his little beauty.It seems like my dad hands is as big as her or bigger.My mom has been crying since i had her.She says she cant believe she's mine.My parents are so ready to spoil her.My g.ma says now i have two babies ..lol.I know i shouldn't think about her father but i cant stop.I know i hate remember all of wat happen to keep
me away from him.A piece of
me want to forgive and not forget.Because if i could change it all i would but he is her father.idk i have been so emotional especially wen i think about him.But i just feel so lucky to have her and when she opens her eyes and i feel that joy in my heart, i know he would feel it to if he seen her.Just keeping all of u updated every step .....

March 2, 2010
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You are going to be OK. She sounds precious.

Bitsy

March 2, 2010
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Her biological father wouldn't feel a thing...he is sociopathic. I know you want to ascribe normal, human feelings and empathy to him, but it won't work. He is mentally ill and incapable of normal feelings or empathy for others.

- Ma Strong

March 2, 2010
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Thanks< Auntie GiGi and Ma)Mastrong~i just dont knw how to truly except that he is yet.Because at one point i did love this man alot.And to just think of the realisation of it all its an emotional breakdown.Here i am 21 with a kid and,im not in school anymre,i stay with my parents.I knw i have alot to be thankful for.But idk i never dream that everything would turn out this way.Dont get me wrong she is my litte sunshine through the rain.And i already love her a bunch.Im talkn about everythng else.

March 2, 2010
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Hi Kare,
Hang in there for a while. You are hormonally emotional. As you would be after a birth. Give yourself some time to even out and stabilize. Do not do anything in the meantime. Trust me, if/when this man gets into the picture again, he will not let you be a position where you can reject him again.

It has long past the forgiving, getting over, or making things work, for him. It's a game of who is better than and who will come out on top this time around. Like Ma said, he isn't "normal". He is sick and by the sounds of it, so is his family. Ask yourself this, were he put in jail because of what he did to you, would you take your child to see him then?

Hang in there, enjoy your new precious Isabella (love that name!!!). In due time, you will, if it come to that, make appropriate legal custody arrangements.

March 2, 2010
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I forgot to mention that you will definitely be going back to school and doing everything else you wanted to do. I know the grannies will make sure of it. Things aren't how you had envisioned but I think they will turn out so much better than you could have imagined!!

March 3, 2010
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Thanks ((Fantas)) Your right and thats a good question.Idk if i would take her to see him prob.not.No,i wouldnt take her to see him.Its just difficult to think about.But she is 4 days old now.=)She is still not feeding without the tube.They said it might take a while for that,and for her to gain weight.I got discharged today and i miss her so very much already.I didnt wanna leave her there at the hospital without me.I just stayed there just watching her for hours.Im going to see her tomorrow morning.I cant wait until she comes home and sleep in her room and everything.Idk if im going to get much sleep tonight while missing her.And im in a little bit of pain and it sucks.Got this whole discomfort thing going on.Geesh...

March 8, 2010
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How about an update on Baby Kare

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March 8, 2010
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Enjoy the sleep, while you can get it. Once Baby comes home, you will probably be up alot throughout the night. So, take advantage of the excellent care she is getting in the hospital and sleep as much as you can. Recover your strength. It's the best thing you can do for yourself right now.

I am so happy that you have your darling Baby Daughter. Do let us know how she is doing and how you are feeling. Did you have a C-Section or normal, vaginal birth? The recovery/healing time varies, depending on which one you had. And if you had stitches for an episiotomy, that can be uncomfortable for a week or so.

But you will be amazed. Within a month, you will be right as rain. In fact, it goes even quicker with a second child (at least, it did for me and most of my friends). I was feeling fine, doing laundry, cooking, driving, etc. within a couple days of having my seoond child.

For some reason, first one takes a little longer. And expect your emotions to be very intense and all over the place, especially during the first ten days. Your hormones are adjusting from "pregnant" to "non-pregnant" and that's alot of upheaval.

When you can, share more about your darling Baby. We are bursting to hear about her progress.

- Ma Strong

March 11, 2010
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Hey Kare----
Just wondering about u and how your new baby girl is--- hoping everything is OK....

maybe u are busy with ur Isabella!

(((Kare)))

March 11, 2010
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Hi,((Aunty GiGi)),((StronginHim77)),((innerturmoil)).Im doing ok i guess..((StronginHim77))I had a vaginal birth.And yea,i had to get stitches and i hate them.Im just always uncomfortable.But Um Isabella is doing ok..she has gotten a little sickly..but they said she will be ok... and she's moving kinda slow with gaining weight and feeding without the tube.I just want her here so badly.Everyday its hard to see her and not be able to take her home with me.And it just been one thing after the other to my surprise he found out... I dont know how he found out i had her but he did.And things are not looking too good right now.I really dont want to start fighting over her.NOT NOW!I knew it would come to this.He came to my house and we called the cops.He's saying were holding her from him.And he have rights..its just alot happening.......

March 12, 2010
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Let your attorney handle it. His rights ended with beating you. Do NOT let this get you down. We are all here to support you and encourage you througgh this. Your dad seems to have a good grasp of how to handle him. Let him. Love to you and Babykins...

Bitsy

March 12, 2010
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Thank u so much Bitsy.

March 13, 2010
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Just close your eyes and imagine that we all know you in real life. We whisk you and the baby off to some little island somewhere and all hang out on the beach doing nothing but taking turns taking care of the baby while this whole mess is handled and he has to go away. Escape there any time you need to.

Bitsy

March 14, 2010
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This is not a good night at all..;{ tears....

March 14, 2010
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Oh, sweetheart. Are they hormonal tears or did something else happen?

Bitsy

March 14, 2010
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Its just alot going on and i have to go to court on the 22.;{ for Isabella.

March 14, 2010
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((((Kare)))), Hang in there!! Great to hear little Isabella is doing well and holding her own. Strong girl!!! As for her father, leave all of that to the lawyers. He shouldn't have come to your house because he has an order of restriction. I'm curious as well how he knew. Who is the snitch in your circle? Did you have friends in common who might have told him?

Stay safe and sending you oceans and oceans of hugs!!! Auntie Jazzie!!

March 14, 2010
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Thanks Auntie Jazzie so much.And i really dont know who could have told him.The only people knew was my family and my closest friends.And i just know they wouldnt have told him at all.IDK!who told him.....i know i didnt..And when he came to the house he made a huge scene.He started crying and saying that im the worst parent and everything.That really upset me,because some of my family was there.But like you said im just going to let my lawyer handle it.

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