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just me again "totally confused:"
October 18, 2000
6:45 pm
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I thought I was happily married until a few weeks ago. I had received a phone call from a woman telling me she could not go on with this relationship with my husband. I could not believe it not one word. The following day I questioned him, he could not deny it.
He wants to make this marriage work, he says he is so sorry. But it hurts so much. He agrees to go to counseling. But like I said before it just hurts so much.

October 18, 2000
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Trust is such a fragile thing. I am so sorry, it like puts in neon all those things that you had thought and dismissed. It leaves you wondering what is truth, or story. It hurts so bad, and you feel so vulnerable. You need to take stock of what you have, and what you will give up. Do you have children ?I believe that is signifigant. It will take some time to figure out, and there is no need to rush things. Is he a good provider, has this been a long marriage, there are just so many things to consider. The worst part is that you might not trust any one for a long time, not just him, but any one.Aside from marital counseling, I would suggest that you seek counseling alone, so you can process your anger. Bless you and take care. I believe he is sorry, but there is so much more to it than that. WHY??????

October 21, 2000
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You WERE happily married.

You just didn't know that he was straying. Had the woman not called you would never have known any different.

Do you want to keep him or not?

If you do...make him go to counseling with you...if not kick him out and get started on a new life...kids or no kids.

It's your life too. If you can never turst him again, if you cannot forgive him...get out and start over.

Treat this like one of life's many lessons-which it is. Which lesson? You choose.

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