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JUST A WIERD LITTLE VIBE!
March 2, 2007
2:11 pm
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I kind of got a wierd vibe from my gal pal last night. Thursday nights are the nights when al the friends hang out, we hit up "fridays" (a bar) and have a great ole time. Well, there we were drinking it up, flirting. I was a little tipsy so the sequence of events are a little dazed. 🙂 (I wasn't driving though) Anyway it was about 2a.m. and we didn't want the night to end so we decided to go to this 24 hour bowling alley. As we were walking out, I grabbed her waist and turned her around, she looked over my shoulder to see where our friends were and she said "no, not here, they're watching, walk me to my car" I played it off like I was just hugging her for show. We all walked eachother out and set off on our way to the bowling alley.

The whole time we were surrounded by friends so the intamacy was not there. In fact we didn't even speak at the bowling alley, she was with the girls and I was with the boys.

We weren't mad at eachother or anything like that, I just had a wierd feeling about the worrying if people are watching us. That kind of bothered me. The whole night our friends kept asking "whats goin on with you two" and we'd just smile and say nnnoooottthhhhiiiingggg 🙂 I dunno, maybe I'm making this one act a big deal. I just didn't think she'd care if people saw us kiss, I guess she does and I wont try it again while people are watching.

The night ended about 4 a.m. she had to go home with the girls because they were having a girl trip to the snow and had to be ready by 8 a.m. I walked her to her car, again the presence of friends around, so I didn't want to make it akward so I hugged her, told her to have a great time and to think of me. They drove off and I went back inside.

We texted a little throughout the rest of the morning, I didn't mention "the attempted kiss" I didn't want to have an arguement about that yeah know?

Sad part is, shes gone until Sunday, I leave Sunday to Dallas for seven days, then I go to Italy for 10 days!!! Woohoo 🙂 Then when I get back I go to San Francisco with a friend for 4 days. So I'm not gonna be back in town till late March, and when I do get back, I'm gonna take my kids to San Diego for my daughters Spring break.

It's gonna be a busy month, I dunno where this relationship goes after this, I don't even know if I should bring up what bothered me last night, it might be all forgotten by then huh?

March 2, 2007
2:21 pm
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this is off....be on this forum for years....not just since last year..we can email each other Now? that Nappy is long gone....
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Santino, I don't know you well, but I have been readind your treads. Since I am agirl and know how I am.. Maybe she was a little intimidated ? Of unsure of her affections in front of other people. It could be just that simple....horsefly

March 2, 2007
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Some people need time to warm up especially around others. Bet anything after awhile it will be second nature. Keep your chin up. Don't look for trouble where there is not any trouble. Concentrate on the fact that you like her and you are getting to know her. It is not the end of world that she said not in front of anyone. 🙂 🙂

Gotta run. I guess it will be awhile. Let me know how it goes when you get back.

March 2, 2007
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I guess your right, it is early.

March 2, 2007
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I'm sure she is aware of all your travel plans. Maybe it's possible she doesn't want the relationship to progress to that level until you are back and settled.
I agree with taj - don't look for trouble where there isn't any....

Atalose

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March 2, 2007
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Atalose: Thats typical me. Always looking to deep into things, always reading into things too much. I'm actually known for it, in our circle of friends. 🙂

March 2, 2007
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I hope you read as much into enjoying all your trips and spending time with your kids 🙂 🙂

Not having any expectations about someone new is the best way to go just enjoy it as it happens.

Atalose

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March 2, 2007
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would this have been a first kiss?

If so, perhaps she wanted her first kiss to be special before putting on public displays of affection?

Being rejected like that stinks...but sometimes, it's not really for the reasons you fear it is.

March 2, 2007
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We have given eachother pecks on the cheeks and stuff but nothing major. Yeah it was rather akward. It didn't ruin the evening or anything like that. If it's meant to be the oppurtunity will rise again I'm sure.

March 2, 2007
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don't stress over it.

March 2, 2007
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knowing you, it is going to take a night out on the town, after having a few drinks, then spending all this time, and then all the sparks will fly then. It will be passionate. It is going to happen. It is always those softspoken ones that act hidden, then all comes out when the doors are closed. You'll see.

March 3, 2007
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Thanks Taj, you always make me feel good about my situation. I spoke to her earlier today and she was telling me how beautiful the mountains were and how she wants to come up again when I get back just me and her. She wants me to teach her how to snowboard. 🙂 I'm not that good myself, I think she thinks I'm some kind of expert, I could see us already crashing down the mountain 🙂

March 3, 2007
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I like this girl. I think it is off to a good start. Little disappointments do happen but so far I see something that is not what I call word on this site used often "Red Flags". I think you seem like an openly affectionate person and some are more reserved. Doesn't mean you cannot bring that out in her at a later time. Believe me, she likes you and all this takes time, love does grow. Don't run away too quickly.

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