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I'm here, GG.

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sorry forgot to write...are you here?

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Yep, I'm here.

October 10, 2006
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I really have missed talking to you, mama, loving, and others. I need to talk about armyleo. I can't get her out of my mind. I am so scared for her.

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I'm scared for her, too. I hope that those of us here can reach her, and help her to take the steps that she needs to get out of this situation. She's already taken the first steps in reaching out to us. So there is already progress.

I only hope that she and the children are safe, and that we're here for her when she's ready to take more steps.

October 10, 2006
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I think when I read her story, it was also the time about the Amish girls. I was in depression about the two situations. I pray for army...I don't think I can help her...she doesn't realize her options...

October 10, 2006
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I don't think those steps are going to happen fast enough...I want to check on her daily...I can't believe what she is going through...Are we doing all we can do?

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Can he possible access this site or her emails? I feel helpless and it is making me feel so guilty.

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Well if she hangs around here, she will learn of her options, and possibly face some choices that she wasn't aware she had.

And I think you could, infact, help her. Just by being here, and listening to her when she needs it. You are just as valuable here on this board as anyone else and your thoughts, ideas and your shoulder to cry on is more than a lot of people don't have in real life. Just being here matters TONS!!

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As you can tell, when I get anxious, I get nervous and hyper.

While I have you here, want to share something else. One of my twins went to a back specialist due to problems from gymnastics, etc. She need physical therapy, but the doctor noticed something on her x-ray. She has a mild form of spina bifida and it is genetic. I found out that she probably got it from me; I had more symptoms than she did. Our worry now: she has to have genetic counseling due the gene she is carrying. All four of my children will have to get this testing. I feel so bad about this and dread the worry whenever any get pregnant.

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Jen, you made me feel better about army...I am so scared though...

October 10, 2006
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Also, GG, it's very possible that her husband could access this site.

All we can do is advise her with what we have. I'm afraid the rest will have to be up to her. We can try to help her to break thru that fear. But when it comes down to it, she'll have to be the one to take action.

I know it's a helpless feeling not being able to find her and save her. We know that if we were there in real life, we'd have to kidnap her and the children in order to remove her from the situation.

All we can do is be here when she needs us. Thru ALL the steps in this, and guide her the best we can.

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Oh, GG. We cross posted, again.

I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. Just so you know, I will pray for her AND you, for strength, courage and peace in this. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!!

I'm thinking of you, Hon! And I just want you to know that I am a firm believer in faith, and putting these things into God's hands. Once we do, we can find some peace and rest from the worry and anxiousness. I will pray for this for you and your daughter.

(((GG)))

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it just doesn't seem enough...but I will have to deal with that I guess.

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I posted right above you, again...

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thanks Jen, for the kind thoughts and prayers...

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(((GG))) My heart goes out to you, Sweetie!! It's hard enough when we, ourselves, have to bear such hardships. But when it's our children, it hurts in a whole different way. We WISH we could take it from them, and bear it ourselves.

I know about the worrying thing. But just try to hang in there and be strong for your daughter, (which I'm sure you have been, already)

I truly do wish for the best on this, Honey!! (((GG)))

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GG, ya' still there? Hope you're ok.

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yes, I am. had a phone call...

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Ok. (((GG)))

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I have got to start appreciating calm days!

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I think we ALL need to learn that "skill"!! LOL!

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