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Jen, are you up?
September 18, 2006
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have a ?

September 18, 2006
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I'm here, now...

September 18, 2006
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I just happen to have a bad night of sleeping and got on the internet. Someone new had just gotten on and I didn't recognize the name. I was too scared to open since the troll monster visited me last week! I was checking to see if you were still up and recognized the name. I just didn't respond.

Thanks for the fun amusement park day. It was a nice release for me.

Oh, my 18 year old that just moved out called me on my way to work and she was so sick, sounded like sinus, ear, and throat infection. There was no way for me to take off, so I told her I was getting an appt. for her. She started saying, "I can't go to the doctor by myself." It was so, so hard, but I told her that she wanted to move out, she wanted to be free and independent, so part of growing up is going to the doctor by yourself. That was so hard.

September 18, 2006
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(((GG))) I didn't see the new poster, and I didn't know about the troll. Hopefully whoever it was has kindly moved on!

I'm sorry about your daughter not feeling well. And that has to be SOOO hard to allow her to take care of it herself. But I think you did the right thing. THEY make the choices, WE just enforce them. (Ouch!) This hurts us, but we know it's what we have to do, in order for them to grow.

Just gently remind her that you are "supporting" her choice. Which it appears you're already doing.

GOOD JOB, MOM!! But I know it's gutwrenching! I'm about to be facing some of these very things real soon! I'll be tracking you down when that day arrives!

(((GG))) Hang in there, my friend! The best is yet to come! (and here we thought we were finished with parenting! LOL! My parents aren't even finished with ME yet!;)

September 18, 2006
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Jen, will you read what I wrote to mama so you might know more about me?

September 18, 2006
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Ok, where can I find this? Is there a specific thread?

September 18, 2006
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You didn't hear about the troll that visited me in the middle of the night when I couldn't sleep? I didn't even know there was such a thing and I thought the person was just expressing herself. It was awful and mean to P&L and me. She also got on another site and said she was watching me. Now this happened around 2:30 a.m. and I was very upset. The next morning, all of "its" posts were gone. I had no clue what was going on until Moon &Stars, mama, and P&L explained what trolls were. I am so glad P&L didn't see the posts, they were BAD!

September 18, 2006
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Never mind, I just found it. Going to check it out...

September 18, 2006
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Jen, just got home and going to run and take a shower. Will check back.

September 18, 2006
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I didn't know that the threads or posts on this site could be deleted. And the troll was on another site? Do you mean a different one than ACC? That would definately be disturbing! Please be cautious with giving out too much info. about yourself!

I read what you wrote to Mama. I'm so sorry for what you went thru with your father. That has to be a pretty heavy thing to have to carry around with you.

One thing I want you to remember, GG. It's very typical of the victims of these crimes, to blame themselves and feel worthless. But just so you know, HIS actions are of NO reflection of YOU. HE is the one to blame and HE is the worthless one. YOU were just his victim. YOU are not to blame for his actions. HE owns that and it soley belongs to HIM.

You have as much worth and value as any of God's children on this earth and you have a right to a happy and safe life, just like anyone else.

HIS disgust and filth is with HIM, and it will be HE who will answer to this in his own time, when he meets his maker, (if he hasn't already).

So just that you know that you are a separate individual than him, and you are your own person.

(((GG))) My heart is with you, Hon, as you re-live this awful scenerio. But you SURVIVED, and now you can reach out to others who have been or are going thru this very thing. You're a survivor, and for this, you can be proud! 🙂

September 18, 2006
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still haven't gotten to the shower; my dad has colon cancer and I am feeling real guilty and confused about it. What my dad did was not a one time thing, many times it happened, and I froze every time and just phased myself out. I didn't remember a lot until just a few years ago and still don't remember it all and don't want to. The only counselor I went to (3x's) this year said I needed to remember everything to heal and should confront him. Yea, I can see that happening. I was so freaked yesterday when I read jigs story and couldn't talk to anyone on this site and definitely no one here to talk to.

Sorry, the troll was on another thread with my conversation. Felt like I was being stalked and she stated that she could see me.

Really need to run, check back later...thanks for your kindness...gg

September 18, 2006
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Ok, get your shower.

It's good to talk about this and get it out. I don't know about the confronting your father part, but I'm not a professional. Maybe there would be something good to come of it.

As for the troll, was it on one of P&L's threads? And the post is now gone? If it is, I have to wonder how it got deleted. We don't have that option on this board, oh, unless the moderator caught it and ZAPPED her! I bet that's what happened!

Have a great shower and I hope you sleep better tonight! (((Cuddles to GG)))

Jen

September 18, 2006
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Okay, feel refreshed. She addressed P&l and me a 2-3 times on P&L's thread. On a thread I started, she addressed me with the creepy, "I see you GG". At 8:00 a.m., when I wanted to see if P&L or anyone else saw, the threads were gone. I was freaked and didn't know what was going on. Well, Moon & Stars and mamac read them and told me the site coordinator must have sent her packing. How did the site coordinator know to go to more than one thread? Anyway it's over and I am still leary about answering anyone I don't know now.

It happened two weekends ago.

September 18, 2006
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If I was the new name you were refering to I just want you to know that I only needed a shoulder and some support. I have no viruses or anything like that.

September 18, 2006
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No, it wasn't you, I just answered you on another thread. Do not worry!

September 18, 2006
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Well, GG, the site coordinator probably took care of this, and has a log to see all of the threads that it posts on. I'm just GLAD it's gone! And hopefully if that happens again, there will be others around to see it too.

I have to step away here, GG. My girls are on the loose tonight, and I have to go and set some curfews and get some locations so I can BREATHE while they're out. One of them has MY truck, so I hope they are good and well behaved! LOL! Wish me luck!

September 18, 2006
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Good luck with those girls, Jen!

September 19, 2006
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Jen...jsut stopping in to say hi...and wondering how you've been. I've been in pretty much just one thread these days..but, I was just thinking about you..and wondering how you've been.

Love Soulsister

September 19, 2006
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Hey, Sis! I've been surviving. I have it all down in the "Overwhelmed" thread. My girls are all grown up and causing me panic attacks! LOL! But...I guess that's their job!

How are YOU? Are you holding up ok? You missed our day at the amusement park, yesterday. But I'll be watching for ya' next time!

I hope all is well, Honey. I know you've been thru so much, and I just pray for a little peace and joy for you and the children. I've been think'n of you too, Sugar!

(((SS)))

September 22, 2006
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GG, hope you have a good day.

And you, too, Soulsis!!

September 22, 2006
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Thanks Jen, us moms have got to stick together! Say a prayer for P&L today. She is undergoing some medical tests and I know she is scared; her parents are with her. She will let us know the results. Have a good day too...GG

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